This boy at my school thinks we are going out but where not and every time i tell him that where not going out he says "ha ha your soo funny" and thinks I'm jokeing how can I fix this with out hurting his feelings
2007-12-20 02:30:45 · 24 answers · asked by Broadwayybabyy<3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That plane is not weird
2007-12-20 02:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Brad R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's pretty set on his idea. I'd say you have 2 options:
1. Sit down, tell him to look you in the eye and pay attention, and slowly explain you aren't boyfriend & girlfriend, and that you never were. Tell him that you are sorry he has a different idea, but you never had the same idea.
or...
2. Sit down and tell him you are breaking up with him. That will make the message clear...you aren't his girlfriend. Even if you never were, this at least ought to stop the behavior.
Bottom line is, If this guy is that into you, it's going to be almost impossible to do this without hurting his feelings. You can't be responsible for that. We can't live our lives never hurting someone. That would mean never being true to ourselves. You'll have to make it clear, one way or another.
2007-12-20 10:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Night Owl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just teasing you. Ignore him.
Spend more time thinking about school and less about idiot boys, and you would know this:
Your first sentence was not a question, "plane" is a flat surface or flying machine, "I" and "joking" were missspelled and "without" is one word (in this case.)
"Where" should be "we're."
Commas come in handy for clear writing. You might know how to write quoted sentences, too.
By the way, the last 9-10 words in your run-on paragraph was a question with no punctuation.
This is typical of a public-school educated teenager. Isn't that sad?
2007-12-20 10:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That kid has problems. Why does he think y'all are together? Try being firm with him and tell him, he is not your boyfriend and not get frustrated because that could make it worst. If after telling him firmly and that still doesn't work get outside help from a consular or someone older that you can trust. Be care he doesn't seem to right to me and he could turn psycho on you. Good Lick.
2007-12-20 10:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by frenchsilkcream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably showing off for his friends, or really likes you, or maybe doesn't think your serious. Boys can be so imature! Look him in the eye and tell him you don't wan t to "go out". Make sure he knows you're serious! Good luck!
2007-12-20 10:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by volleyball queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you like him but not that way, if he can't take a hint than it's not your problem. He will get it eventually! Have you considered asking him "since when are we going out?"
2007-12-20 10:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by crys4204e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you really feel... the more you put it off the more he is going to think that you two are really going out and then you are going to hurt him even more! just tell him how you really feel... it feels good to tell the truth!
2007-12-20 10:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by stick*shift*diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude is psycho, stay away from him. He's obviously not taking No for and answer. Sounds romantic in a movie, but freaky in reality. Get another boyfriend so he can realize that he's not it, even if it takes you to get a friend to pretend he's your boyfriend.
2007-12-20 10:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jarod C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't take a hint so you will have to spell it out for him. "Don't come to my house. I am not going out with you. My dad is going to be really angry if you show up. Find someone else. I'm not interested."
2007-12-20 10:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel....But at the same time he could just be playing with you 2....
2007-12-20 10:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tha Blessed One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋