do you think there is compassion lacking for woman who miscarry?

Question

"A system to assess and improve compassionate care for miscarriage should be implemented the in health care system"

do you agree or disagree? and why?

Answer 1

I agree, when I was 20 wks, I was sent home to catch my baby in a 'hat!' I was in and out, I hemorraged and was severely infected b/c of their lack of medical care. It took five days before it was over and I was left a mess and the entire thing affected my ability to carry any more children. It was the most traumatic experience in my life and angers me to this day about these medical people. I couldn't care less about the society...they didn't need to do a damn thing but the medical team could of done a lot more to make things more humane...it was disgusting. Even while I was in ER, after I had my son at home, the ***** of a nurse was talking about what she doing that night after work!

Answer 2

It's hard to agree or disagree unless you tell us what your idea is. What things would you implement in the health care systems.

I personally think that if you miscarry you should be allowed counceling with a councler. Maybe told of support groups for parents who have miscarried.

It think the bases of your idea is a good one but your leaving out an important person in that equation. Fathers, they are also very much effected by miscarriage.

I do think that there should be some changes. The offer of support would be what i think should be offered.

Answer 3

Any miscarriage is tremendous mental trauma for a woman.She does need compassionate care at home and at working place.It seems, she hardly gets such a care in most cases.In many cases , I know, the woman is blamed for all this even at home by the husband and the whole lot of in laws(who are good at it).This is our society !

Answer 4

it seems as though everyone's answer to miscarriage is "you can always have another child in the future." as if that makes the loss of this child any better. health care systems need to offer counseling that is designed to help these women deal with the loss of a child. this isn't just a medical issue, it's also a very emotional issue. so yes, i agree that a system needs to put in place to assist these mothers.

Answer 5

Compassion is lacking and I don't know that will ever change for the world do to woman's choice think of a baby before birth as a mass of tissue and women have a loss of that every mo.

Answer 6

I disagree.
The emotional and psychological effects of a miscarriage are tremendous, however it is at this time a woman needs such care from those whom she loves.

The medical community cannot replace a loving family and network of friends.

Answer 7

The medical community cannot with one breath complete an abortion on one woman and turn around and be sympathetic because a baby was lost by another.

It just cant happen.

If solace needs to be found the issue lies with society, not the medical community.

As it is, for me it was a personal issue, and the support of my family was enough to get me through.

Answer 8

I do think that there is a tendency to treat miscarriages medically, not as a psychologically traumatic experience for a woman who has begun to see herself as a mother. We need to be able to grieve as well as heal.

Answer 9

as a woman who has miscarried twice. i think people should be more compassionate to us. i feel like i am a mother even though my son is dead but noone else really sees it like that.

Answer 10

Disagree. At least, there wasn't when I miscarried.