He yelled at me, chewed me out and his mom called me yelling at me and calling me a whore. At least I know what to expect if I ever get pregnant again. What on earth should I do?
2007-12-19 23:54:24 · 25 answers · asked by Latefortea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he and his mom yell because you said you were pregnant or did they yell at you because you lied?
If he yelled because you lied:
Don't lie to your BF about serious life changing events. It causes him to not trust you. If I were a guy and my girl lied to me about being pregnant just to see my reaction, then I would break up with her because I would think that she was "testing the waters" and was planning to "accidently" get pregnant with my child.
If he yelled at you because you were pregnant:
Why are you having sex with someone who isn't willing to risk being a parent with you?
Through your daily interactions with him you know how he feels about kids and becoming a parent. You knew before you lied to him how he would react, so it was a waste of energy to lie to him and created unnecessary drama, plus he dragged mommy in on the action---Is he a momma's boy? Momma's boys make lousy partners because momma is always the most important woman/person in their lives at the expense of their wives and own children.
you are now aware of the following:
1. you may have a momma's boy--bad thing, unreliable partner
2. trust issues--you didn't trust him to behave honorably in the event of an unplanned pregnancy, so you "tested" him. he now doesn't trust you because you lied to him about being pregnant and is probably wondering if you are lying to him about being on BC. His mother doesn't trust you and believes that you are going to "trap" her baby into a relationship he dosen't want to stay in.
3. If you do stay together, you will ALWAYS have trouble with his mother. She will ALWAYS see you as a liar, a sneak and untrustworthy.
Break up with him. Be more selective when you choose your next man and treat that one with respect.
2007-12-20 00:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that's crazy, but this is what you can do. Tell him that you really thought that you where pregnant. You felt dizzy, felt like vomiting and all that stuff that comes with being pregnant. So from those symptoms you came to the conclusion that you where pregnant. However, when you went to the doctor you got a different analysis. That you where not pregnant, and the reasons you felt like that was because you overdose on the birth control pills!
And as far as your BF yelling at you…. That’s insane. All you really got to think now is do I want to spend any more time with a person that treats me like this during these circumstances?
2007-12-20 08:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going for the shock factor first off. Then, loose the bum. One does not become pregnant by ones self...This is really a terrible game you played, and I suggest you grow up and stop doing that. That was really a cold thing to do, why would you do that? To "test" him? You mention 'pregnant again' was the last one his child too? I think, it makes perfect sense to START using birth control, and condoms. If the boy had any sense, he would stay away from you, until you grow up.
Wow, that was really a mean thing to do, what was the point?? If it was to find out his reaction, you did, now, does that reaction make you feel better? How did it make him feel?
Stay away from the guy, until he learns how to put on a condom, and when to do so...ie..when he is going to have sex with you...Maybe you should find someone who likes to play games with peoples heads like you do.
2007-12-20 08:03:05 · answer #3 · answered by Robin B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I find your joke a "very good test" of maturity!
I admire you so much! Have you realized the outcome of what you would do if you did what you did?
It needs a strong woman to make a serious joke and even to put your relationship and your reputation on the line, just to find out if your boyfriend is mature enough to face the consequences of what he is doing. There is a saying that goes, "curiosity kills the cat!"
Now that you got the answer to your curiosity, are you willing to accept it??? That's what you should do.
Take care. Happy holidays.
2007-12-20 08:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Prof F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser, he has no respect for you and would make for a crappy father in the long run, now not with standing, if you do get pregnant again and besides a man would take accountablility, I mean are you getting preggers by yourself or is he sexing you? If he don't like it, he can stop with the intimacy.
2007-12-20 08:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Orion Quest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my he is not a good boyfriend. He helped participate in the act so how can he chew you out. Why you got to b e a whore and he laying down with you!
2007-12-20 07:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy T 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh my.. are you willing to say it was all a joke ? (although thats not very.. logical).
You can lie once again to get yourself out of it although i dont think thtas what you want to do.. but in this case if you wanna get off lightly i guess its the only way.
Or you can tell the truth and told him why you lied and hope that he'd understand.
2007-12-20 07:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by Paradise 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you quit playing with his mind?
They probably knew you weren't being truthful.
Why must you lie to him to see what happens, so very immature.....
And as far as what you should do, well its up to you, besides there might be some parts of the story you left out, so there isn't allot of advice i can safely give you.
2007-12-20 08:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ARTY 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
easy , stop munipulating your man ! why would you do something like that anyway?? you won't have a boyfriend if that is the s..t you pull on your man ... if you can't feel the passion and inner feelings inside of you when you make love .or you don't trust it ,get out and find some man that can. that is really stupid !
2007-12-20 08:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Rick B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real disfunctional relationship to me. I'm guessing if he is with him mom you two are real young. How about using some protection. You sound just as immature as he does.
2007-12-20 07:59:08 · answer #10 · answered by warrior 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋