Hello I'm Jessica. I recently was told my dad was hooking me up with my eye doctor's son. I'm only 14 and the guy is 15. I really don't know him and there's a big problem. I don't live in this country I live on an island to it would be difficult for me and him to actually go out, but i really don't care about the distance. I feel like the guy is sweet and sensitive even though I've never met him. I have this sense if a person is nice and has a good personality~ I'm very shy actually and every time i tell my dad i wouldn't mad meeting him, he laughs and i get to red and i just like walk away from my annoying father. I want to meet the guy, but my dad makes it so difficult. I speak fluent Engish and the guy rarely cna speak English and I can barely speak Korean enough I am Korean, he keeps quite well ( so i have heard). Well i have no idea what to do and I think it would be cool to date him but difficult at the times. What should I do? I need a guys opinion. THANKS~
2007-12-19 22:43:14 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-19 22:53:01 · update #1
It's worth a shot, and even if your dad is annoying he sounds like a good guy and that you can trust him. However, the language barrier WILL be a problem and you two may find that you have nothing to say to each other. This is the only drawback in my mind. Culture and language differences make for a long and challenging road to get to know someone well. But sometimes it's worth it!
2007-12-20 04:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by CharlieC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad you don't want him hooking you up with eye doctor's sons, especially when they're older than you! Not to mention the guy can't speak English well and you live a considerable distance away from him. That's absurd, like something out of Seinfeld...
How do you know he is "sweet and sensitive" when you have never a) met him or b) he doesn't speak English well?
Only if you want to, remember that.
2007-12-19 22:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some times we picture people according to what we want them to be so we can picture them as nice ,sweet and have a good personality and all these good words but we don't have to depend on that , our imagination always trap us. u need not to make any previous judge at least till u meet that guy cause u may do something that u will regret all your life , and u only 14 so just take your time don't be in hurry and every thing be well on time
2007-12-19 23:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by hanien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, there's an old African proverb that says "Never test the depth of a river with both feet" In short, take the time to get to know him, don't dive into a relationship (I can attest from personal experience that that's not a good thing to do). Hope this helps.
2007-12-20 01:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jake 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
But what if he's not sweet, or sensitive? You never even seen him... none of of friends had ever seen him... Don't just assume things. Might turn out REALLY bad... And most people don't like bad things...
2007-12-19 22:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father is hooking you up with a guy? Wow, no offense to your dad but that's weird and shallow.
2007-12-19 22:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Davey boy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be friends for a long time, then when you are older you can move closer together and get funky.
2007-12-19 22:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by anton t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i'd never have my dad do that!
2007-12-19 22:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by stone throwing junkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋