Female Opinions Only?

Question

I wanna know how women could say they promise that they're not gonna gonna do something or swear that there not doin anything that would hurt you. But then you find out that they have been doing things behind your back and while there with you they act like nothings goin on!!! How can they do that and not feel guilty or at least be honest and tell you about it?? And most the girls i've met have been like this Not All But i just wanna how they can be like that..

im not saying all girls are like that. its just why would you lie instead of telling the truth when you know that lying always ends worse. and i let the girls i dated know that. but they did it anyways and its not the group of girls i meet because most of them didnt seem like that at first but later on they totally changed.

Answer 1

Thats what happens when you find selfish young immature chics who dont know what they want. Cuz they suck, thats why, they are young dumb and naive. Its usually a phase but they need to grow up first.

Also I'm not saying you are, but just incase, dont let girls think that they can just walk all over you and like do what ever they want to. I'm not saying be a jerk or anything like that to them just dont make it seem like you are naive or clueless so they dont play you.

Answer 2

girls dot the same thing guys do. not to say that it excuses thier actions but atleast it doesn't limit this flaw to one gender.

girls do it because there are some things you just dont ask of people and that is to make a promise. Promises are difficult to keep especially when you are playing the field. you seem like a young guy- so the girls you meet are more than likely not being picked for the right reasons. If you want a party girl and to have a good time- thats what you'll get. if you want a steady relationship those girls usually dont have the extra time on their hands the party girl does. She's focused on life issues not party plans.

Bottom line: have fun. you have a abis of women to meet and when the right one comes-- she wont promise you anything- she'll do the things that show she loves and repects you because she wont want to lose you and you'll do the same for her. Everyone isnt worthy of your affection--remember that! the special ones are a rare , chance encounter

Answer 3

Not everyone will be honest with you . Some people, no matter how hard they try, just can't help doing stuff that will eventually hurt you . Then they will feel guilty about it && not want to tell you 'cos they're scared of how you'll react . But this doesn't mean you have to give up . Eventually your gonna find someone that was worth all the pain . Good Luck ..

Answer 4

Well I'm guessing immaturity and insecurity to start with...look at it this way - if a girl really had no intention of hurting you, would she need to tell you? Wouldn't you already know by the way she treated you? Or wouldn't she be able to show you how much she cares so you wouldn't need to hear it? My point is - Beware of the girls that swear up and down about stuff - cuz I'd be pretty sure they were up to somethin. And also, since you seem to keep encountering girls such as these - you might reconsider who you're hanging around...and consider what it might be about yourself that attracts you to people like that. For instance, I went through a phase where I wanted to be "rescued"..so I was all about cocky, jocks, military, hero-wanna-bes..cuz that fit that need. Unfortunately - ego maniacs like that are also really insecure..which leads down all sorts of roads..cheating..booze..etc.so start noticing the signs now and skip a lot of unnecessary aggravation. Best Wishes!

Answer 5

Guys and girls both do that. It's because they are not mature or honest. Promising to never hurt someone is an unrealistic promise. We all, at some point, hurt someone we love, even if it is unintentional. Some people just don't believe that they can be loved despite their imperfections, so they make promises they can't keep. That being said, people who do things behind your back, knowing that it's hurtful, just don't deserve your friendship.

Answer 6

I don't think that its anything to do with you. Have you ever when out and just thought to yourself you wasn't going to do something and then ended up doing it. Well its the same differents you made a silent promise to yourself and broke it not meaning to. Maybe she didn't actually mean to do it either it just happened and then she didn't want to hurt you by telling you because she promised.

Answer 7

It's not just a girl thing--men do it too.

Girls who do that are the rotten apples on the tree. There are many girls who are simply the opposite of what you describe; unfortunately, you are getting all the rotten apples. Try to go for a different group of girls rather than the one you are picking your bunch from.

Answer 8

When a woman gets hurt so many times by a man, she starts to believe that if she can't beat them, she'll join them. Lying and hurting others is wrong no matter who does it and acting more like someone who's hurt you doesn't make anything better.

Answer 9

You said it...not all girls are like that...I'm not. I really don't know how people can do or say things and not mean them or much less lie to someone that they supposedly love. It baffles me too. I guess these girls just don't know a good thing when he is right there in front of them. Don't worry, they will get theirs karma is a *itch.

Answer 10

SOME girls now days have no pride are insurance about them selfs today. They had rather lie than tell the truth. It easy that way I think they have to answer to nonononono one.