theres a girl i want to ask out but i have braces and am wondering if thats a major kindof turn off i really like her but i wonder if she thinks i look dumb idk i was talking to her and even flirting with her but now i have braces and am almost kindof shy around her and dont know where to go or wut to do please Help?
2007-12-19 16:47:40 · 8 answers · asked by JJapple sauce 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, be confident because confidence makes you attractive while being self concious makes you look awkward in your own skin.
You have braces because you are trying to improve your smile but in the mean time don't be afraid to smile (as long as you brush & rinse well to make sure that there are no hints of food caught in them :-).
Stop focusing on the braces and approach her as you would if you have the smile that you desire after having them removed.
You mention being shy, so try talking to her like you'd talk to a friend instead of flirting. Show interest in getting to know her, compliment her.
Think of a really cool guy that you admire, like a star athlete or actor that women like and guys respect, study his behavior and try to embrace his confidence while maintaining your personality.
Plenty of girls would find a guy like you cute: shy, sweet, and with braces (cause when they come off you are going to have a great smile. . .but the best smile of all is one that is sincere.
2007-12-19 17:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mackenzie Walsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the braces influence you teenagers go through braces all the time now its not a big deal(I'm guessing that you are a teenager lol). I mean all the girls I know aren't turned off by braces or anything. Just keep acting like you always do even if you are nervous try to keep talking to her unless she is a biotch shes not gonna stop talking to you because of your braces and you seem like a nice guy who wouldn't like a biotch so yeah it should all be good! Don't feel ugly. Give it a week or two you will feel better. Good luck man. =)
2007-12-19 16:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by noname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whan do you mean by saying that you like a girl but you have braces? do you take tis as a problem? if the girl likes you she would no matter if you have braces or not.. you should not worry about the way peope look at you .. some people are just trying to put you down so they can be 1 step forward .. dont let them do it.. like your self for what you are beause if you dont to it .. theres no one left to!
2007-12-19 16:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you've been laughing and flirting with her for a while, chances are looks don't really matter anymore, she liked you for your personality. If she turns you down because of the braces than she was too shallow for you in the first place.
2007-12-19 16:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by Queen of the World 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truely likes you, she will think you look good no matter what. Try asking her out! She should love you for who you are on the inside not the outside!
2007-12-19 16:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Braces are better than acne, B.O., excessive weight or - worse - stupidity. Not a big deal.
2007-12-19 16:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shouldn't matter what you may look like it should be about who you are as a person , if you really like her go for it
2007-12-19 16:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by sinfulmelody15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesnt matter but you should wait till your able to speak right
2007-12-19 16:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋