She is really smart and quite gorgeous. sometimes she stares at me and i stare at her but i dont want to freak her out by looking at her all the time what should i do? I want to take her to the movies and to a dinner but i dont know how to ask. how could I tell if she is in to me? And i asked her if she can study with me after school is that good? I dont want to seem like im obsessed with her or anything help please
2007-12-19 16:39:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have a big crush. That doesn't make you obsessed. But you're on your way if you don't just ask her out. Be confident. Approach her in a way that doesn't put her on the defense. Meaning, don't walk up to her when she's surrounded by her freinds. Or catch her off guard. Wait until you see her staring at you again and motion that youd like to speak to her. Use your hands. Then walk towards her. Or if the opportunity comes up where you can casually compliment her on something she's wearing(that shirt looks really good on you etc..) and then start up a conversation and ask her if she'd like to get together some time. If she says sure. Ask her if she'd like to do something that Friday night. She's probably dying for you to ask her. If she turns you down, don't take it personally. I have a feeling she won't. You can start by just giving her a little compliment or asking her a question. Try "May I ask where you got that shirt?" My sister's bday is coming and I know she'd love it." Then go from there. Its easier than you think. Girls don't usually give a guy the eye they're not interested in. Be brave. We love a confident guy.
2007-12-19 20:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by aperfectpeach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart and gorgeous wow you cant let this opportunity pass you by if she already decided to study with you than this is a golden opportunity she already agreed to spend time with you so that's a start, now he res what I would do I would flirt with her I would give her small hints to let her know I'm interested and if she flirts back than you will know shes into you cuz if you don't let her know your interested you might end up as just a friend, get to know her a little better than when you are comfortable talking to her ask her out to the movies when your on your first date ask her if you can call her sometime get her number then after a while let her know how you feel and ask her out.
Had a really similar situation hope this helps
2007-12-20 00:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studying?! No sir. First you have to get to know her and become one of her acquaintances. She as to be comfortable around you first. Then just ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you. You're stressing yourself out by doing nothing an wondering. But first... when she stares does she smile or does she give you a "why are you looking at me" kind of look? If she smiles go for it. If not, back it up.
2007-12-20 00:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Gizma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 16 there was this boy in my Chemistry class and I had such a crush onhim. We would hangout all the time. I knew he was into me but he never did anything about it. We flirted and played games for about 8 months. Then he started dating someone else. Then after we graduated from highschool he tried another attempt to get together with me but I was dating someone whom I eventually married and love very much. But I always wonder what could have happened if he had the courage to act on his feelings. I will always have a special place in my heart for him. You need to be friends first and if the rest is meant to be and you have the courage to act, then it will happen.
2007-12-20 00:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by cbsb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Dont try to act all sauve, Girls dont like when you pretend to be someone you're not! Make small talk with her, Ask her what music she likes or her favorite time of year and why. That will open up a conversation. Then maybe say we should hang out sometime.... See what she says.
2007-12-20 00:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you ask her if she can study with you after school or not. Know each other well first and you will automatically know whether she likes you or not. It's real... If you think that she likes you, ask her out. Especially on Christmas day... Easier to ask her out. Merry Christmas, good luck! :)
2007-12-20 00:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out, you've got nothing to lose and if she says no it will be embarrasing for a while but you'll get over it. But put it this way, if she sees you looking at her and she doesn't look back with a big gresey look, YOU"RE IN!!!
2007-12-20 00:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw well. you said she is a smart yeah ask her to stay afterschool and stuff. its ok she wont freak out juz try one time! and add her on msn and stuff tis is so random. everyone does it dont be scared
good luck :)
2007-12-20 00:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Kareena K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her in a suave way.
Remember the cartoon "Johnny Bravo"??
2007-12-20 00:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋