I am six months pregnant. I have gotten hit on more in the past month then in my whole life. I get hit on or flirted with atleast a half a dozen times a day. I noticed I was getting noticed more before you could even physically tell I was pregnant. I have heard other pregnant women say the same thing. Is there some sort of pregnant aura that turns guys on or what Why do I get hit on more when I am pregnant?
2007-12-19 16:20:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not full of myself or trying to say I'm hot. Pregnancy is not attractive to me and I have no interest in anyone but my fiance. But I know when guys are looking and when I'm getting hit on... I
m definatly not crazy...
2007-12-19 16:21:41 · update #1
My boobs were more than ample to begin with...
2007-12-19 16:26:23 · update #2
Yes, you are absolutely right.
part of it is that since "your boat is full" you cannot get more pregnant,
for some guys, your incipiant motherhood and your swollen condition drives them nuts. You , on the other hand, feel bolated, pushed out of shape and decidedly unsexy, but that won;t stop a guy from "trying".
And, as a rather crass friend of mine said "You know that a pregnant woman has 'put out'."
2007-12-19 16:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just the breasts.
You are probably eating well.
That 'glow' is a healthy looking face.
Men don't REALLY like the runway models, unless they are modelling their designs.
Designers don't like 'femme' fat.
They really want coat hangars.
Or young boys.
I'm sure they will be marketing crotch lumps next year.
That would be so 'fierce'.
Another thing, we all had mothers. They could be looking for a woman, 'Just like Dad had'. Oedipus complex or just fond memories of mom?
They also could just be nice to the pregnant lady, because she has an unborn child in her.
Women and children first, as the phrase goes on a sinking ship with limited lifeboats.
2007-12-19 16:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by southbrooklyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Pregnancy stimulates pheromone production in a female...we unconsciously "smell" your sexuality...
2. The fact that you're pregnant means you do it...(a big plus in today's world...)
3. The increased blood flow caused by the pressure, makes women physically "glow" with a flushed aura...it's true...ask anyone...
4. It brings out our own "primitive fatherly" tribal instincts...we automatically wish to protect and provide...and the biggest one of all is...
5. While you're pregnant...we can't get you pregnant...
See? Make sense now?
Good...now let's go out...(just kidding...)
2007-12-19 16:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something about a pregnant woman that is extremely attractive to me. Perhaps some subliminal "glow" and natural beauty. Maybe the change in hormones? Dunno.
Congrats on your pregnancy!
2007-12-19 16:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by mr_tasty_phlegm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys definitely have a fetish for pregnant women. I know a guy who was like that. He had what many considered to be a "hot" wife, but he was extremely disloyal. It's ironic because he looked like that Ernest guy (from those movies).
2007-12-22 16:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is this certain vibe that pregnant women put off. Also some men are turned on by pregnant woman. All I can say is just enjoy the attention and your pregnancy!
2007-12-19 16:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe guys are being playful and flirting with you, but are not really serious. I know I'm not turned on by pregnant women, but I may want to show kindness to them.
2007-12-19 16:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irrespective of color or greed, the natural beauty in a woman blossoms out when she become pregnant and the love & attraction on them grows more- ADeep
2007-12-19 16:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by adp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instinct, it's normal to want to protect something weak, no offence but what could be weaker than a woman with a child, which right at this moment is acting as a parasite?
That and it shows you're capable of providing offspring, which is another basic desire.
2007-12-19 16:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boobs got sssssooooooooooooooo big when I was pregnant even in the early weeks. Maybe thats what it is for you, that is the only place men look you know and they probably don't even realise you are pregnant!!!!
2007-12-19 16:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋