okay, so.
i have a boyfriend, long distance, for 3 years.
we havent met, yet, hes older, so we're waiting until im legal.
theres been a lot going on.
winter formal saturday, kissed/danced with a guy friend.
just found out last night that my older cousin's ex-husband that she divorced 8 years, has strong feelings for me.
my boyfriend and i decided to wait, until we're married to have sex. i dont know what to do, im a little confused.
2007-12-19 16:19:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really wanna get caught up with an older man?
Having hormones at 16 is natural, acting on them when you aren't ready to just because they're telling you to screw, doesn't mean you should.
Think rationally about the situation, yes your body wants you to go take some man in an animalistic way. But until you know you're ready for such a thing, hold back.
Also, if your having problems, and kissing other guys, I'd dump the long distance boyfriend to save him the pain incase you give in.
2007-12-19 16:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by HL2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah, baby...slow down
dump your bf...shouldn't he be in jail for dating/mingling w/ an underage girl (like yourself)
plus, you met him online and have never physically laid eyes on him...he could be a player...telling you that he will marry you...esp since ya'll have never met
as for the raging hormones, physically hurt yourself in some way...like fall down the stairs or hit your head hard against the wall...you will be in so much physical pain that you will forget about the raging hormones
2007-12-20 00:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by BeautifulGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, ure so desperate u no and dont deny it. Desperation doesnt only involve goin after a lotta guys, it also involves sticking wit only one bcoz ure too scared/pathetic to get someone in real life.
2007-12-20 00:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Letsgofishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not gonna make it. I doubt he'll be a virgin. Why should you? Be safe, make the guy wear a rubber, tell someone where you're going to be in case you change your mind. Seriously, welcome to the 21st century. Leave your parents guilt at the door.
2007-12-20 00:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by 4Brain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
$250 per hour is the kind of help you need. There called sessions !
2007-12-20 00:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young. Move on.
2007-12-20 00:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by pwi2366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋