did in the past that was hurtful to you, if there is a strong possibility that you will receive a shallow, superficial, or defensive response?
2007-12-19 13:58:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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2007-12-20 12:48:05 · update #1
Yes because sometimes letting a question go unsaid only serves to bother you more because it's still residing within you. The more one keeps something in, the more it can eat at you. Given that, a superficial response is still better than self-torture.
2007-12-19 14:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by genaddt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would ask them the question and if I got a shallow answer, I would not count them as one of my friends. If they don't care that they hurt you, then what kind of friend are they?
If it was a spouse, obviously can't put them out for that, but I would most likely keep bringing it up till they took it seriously.
2007-12-19 14:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trying to keep lines of communication open is always best in relationships up to the point where they break it off. Then give them to God and move on.
2007-12-19 14:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Curtis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you feel that someone "supposedly' cares, you don't need to ask a thing.
2007-12-19 14:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forgive them and move on with your life. Your only hurting yourself by hanging on to this bitterness in your life.
2007-12-19 14:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Dani Marie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋