Why most guys...?

Question

Why is it that most guys like big things in a girls body? can't they just appreciate how the ones wit no body but good heart are?

{My b/f loves me the way I am and I love him 2 :) }

Answer 1

There is this whole thing called nature... Men have a natural instinct to like certain parts of a womans body. That does not mean that a man cannot be happy with a woman that doesn't have a huge chest. When it comes to falling in love, breast size becomes irrelevant. Falling in love is all about personality, even though initial attraction might be based on appearance.

Answer 2

OK I'm not sure if I read your question right. Apparently you think most guys like big things on a girls body. OMG...if this was true, I would have attracted a ton of guys with my "thunder thighs". I'm being sarcastic by the way. While many guys are attracted to physical appearance first, it's the personality of a women that keeps him around. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years and I've bounced all over the place with my weight but my personality has stayed the same. He looks at what I offer him and the world and not how I look in the mirror. I hope you get my point.

Answer 3

it's just the media. that's the big answer. we're told what looks good, what doesn't, how you're supposed to look, how you're hair is supposed to be, and what clothes you wear, and etc. the thing is, is that there are the stupid people (sheep) that follow all the trends WAY too much and get caught up in all of it and sometimes die from plastic surgery or anorexia, etc. the other poeple who don't follow too many trends, but are still good looking have good hygiene are very attractive. uniqueness is the key to success, if u end up like everyone else then you won't go very far in life. enjoy and appreciate what you have and embrace. just think about those cavewomen a long long time ago lol. think they ever thought about name brands, style, hair, make-up? i don't think so. it's ok to use some but you end up looking really dumb when ur goin' for the playboy bunny type of girl look. hope that helped lol

Answer 4

I'm just gonna start by answering the dreaded question: Why do men obsess over breasts, rear-ends, etc.
I believe the reason is that the amount of concealment intrigues a man. Males, from a very young age, are very very curious (well in my opinion at least). This may not continue with everything forever, but in the case of women, I believe men are very very curious. And attracted. I think that maybe this combo of intrigue and curiosity causes massive hormone activity and arousal. Since most men (MOST men) don't constantly see breasts or whatever, they get those feelings. As you can imagine, the bigger they are, the more attractive to the average man's eye, and mind.

Answer 5

we do appreciate girls for who they are, and the one we fall in love wit is not always our dream girl, but a girl with a good body just calls out our attention like when girls see a muscular guy...

Answer 6

i don't know. i appreciate the person's heart just as much as the body. Fun + Ugly = Friend Fun + Hot = Girlfriend
Boring + Ugly = my sister

Answer 7

I suppose % wise there are more big things in girls bodies so most % wise of guys go for the bigger?

Answer 8

The same reason that girls like boys to have a big one.

Answer 9

well girls like "big things" on guys 2

Answer 10

Because most guys think with their eyes instead of their brain, and do not realize that your a great girl behind the big chest! It's udderly stupid! (I just had to use that word).