I know it's not really seen as confident or "masculine", but I seem to get embarrassed easily around girls. My face will turn red, I'll begin to stutter, etc. I just never can think of the right thing to say.
Most girls seem to like guys with lots of confidence. I know I need to work on that...but in the meantime, what do you think of a guy who is bashful and timid?
2007-12-19 13:27:54 · 16 answers · asked by Dee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
srtong, domineering and sometimes aggressive fellows always held an attraction for women, stemms from mankinds Hx 60mill years ago,- these attributes are not always suitable and/or adequate today, particularly not in western societies.
in afrika, afghanistan and such like places, you may still need them to survive,- so much for the Hx of strength and power!
you have got a different personality and although your are still young, I'd guess, this may be modified, but will not change dramaticlly- so what?
there are enough girls, who do prefer the shy type and who are probably not so extrovert and over-sexed!
problem is, you don't realise they are their, hence they are
quiet and shy as yourself, they may feel very much the same as you do right now!
your partnerships may not be so 'eventfull", but then there are certain events, one is better off without!
as you move on, perhaps you should address certain issues in your behavioural style with a psychologist, you can learn techniques, that will conceal your basic feelings, if not alter
them- as you seem to be suffering!
on the other hand, you would not be the sensible, perhaps even sensitive young fellow you are without such problems, or shall we rather call them attitudes?
as you move on, take the opportunity to define yourself different, if you so wish.
preferably when you come into another environment, where nobody knows much of you!
and believe you me, the right one willcome about,when you are not expecting her, you will give her a smile and all is done!
and don't hesitate to give smilesor even date attractive girls,
theywill helpstabalize your self confidence and they also have a problem,-the areonly dted by the shits, becausenobody elesehase the courage to go for them; you may get a few no's,don't feelrejected though, one day aoneof themwill say yes!
2007-12-19 14:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Gerhard S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cute! To me, it's saying that the boy might like me. I don't mind it, but not all girls feel the same way. I like it when boys are like that, as long as they're nice. A tip to help you, ask a female friend to help you with it maybe, and know that girls do have things in common with boys. Just talk about your interests around girls. I know you probably do that already, but if you don't, you should try it. Don't worry; not all girls care whether a guy is "masculine" or not.
2007-12-19 21:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by xxShelbyxx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, "cocky" is not good, so if we're looking at extremes, I'd rather be around a shy guy than an over-confident jerk.
Don't try to be something you're not, but just work on being nice and considerate... there's no reason to feel embarrassed around girls. They're just people.
2007-12-19 21:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's cute sometimes it's not. It depends on the situation. Confidence it's a good thing, but not all guys have it. So don't even worry about it, a girl would like you no matter what.
2007-12-19 21:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lala 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation. like sometimes its cute when guys are nervous or whatever because it shows they really want to impress you but other times confidence is really sexy.
just work on being comfortable talking to girls, and if you dont know what to say just compliment her, but not in a creepy way :)
2007-12-19 21:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
aha nah it's really cute sometimes. it's sweet, like that you get nervous around them. i mean like you have to be a normal mix, and i can't stand guys who think they're amazing. But if a girl you like wants someone with more confidence, then you'll figure it out :D haha, goodluck.
2007-12-19 21:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can be cute but only if you don't act shy all the time. but i think it's cute when a guy who likes me turns shy if i pay a lot of attention to him or if we're just starting to get to know each other. but make sure you're not shy all the time because then she won't think you'll be bold enough to have a relationship with her. good luck
2007-12-19 21:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa :) 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is sweet! Cause that means that the guy might be interested in you. It kinda makes the girl(s) feel special. Don't worry, you'll do fine!
2007-12-19 21:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yepper i think lots of girls do , as long as it isnt all the time like if ya get to know the girl.
2007-12-19 21:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sharon K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I...LOVE IT! It's adorable to watch his cheeks go red! I just wanna hug him and....other stuff, lol.
But yeah. I just love it when a guy is bashful. It shows that he isn't always "tough" and stuff.
2007-12-19 21:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋