In your opinion, which guy has a brain, the one who became a father at the age of 23 or the one who's 30??

Question

In my own opinion, 30-35 is a good age of becoming a father, the mature you are, the stronger your marriage will be and the more you will have.
Examples, my ex gf's father became a dad at the age of 23 and ended up getting divorced like 6 yrs later, my best friend Richard's father became a dad at the age of 32, and is still living together with his mother.

Answer 1

Yes, you are right, above 30 is the correct age for being father. At the age of 23 the person has very less maturity, he can shoulder less responsibilities then how can he take responsibility of being a father?

I find many persons performing love marriage at the age of 22-25, I can call that Lust or attraction more than Love. I find it disgusting if someone marries at 22-25 years age(male). In olden days it was OK, but now it is foolish to say the least.

Answer 2

Hi

To become a father age is not the matter. What matters is that you are settle and your are ready to take the responsibility.

The same rules gets applied to the wife also, If she is ready and can handle the things in the best possible manner then she can become a mother.

There are many couples who had childrens at the age of 21 - 22 and still they are happy and living a very prosperous life.

So if you are matured enough then you can take a decision at the right time seeing all the circumstances around you.

Best of luck & God bless you

Answer 3

Yes, maturity is a factor in a good marriage, but the age of a person does not necessarily denotes maturity. A person maybe older but is immature and vice versa. The important thing is to enter marriage with the needed emotional maturity. The person involved in the relationship would only be the one to be able to determine that. So , don't look at the age but at the maturity of the person.

Answer 4

If the one at 30 years of age is Manly, responsible and capable of taking care of the arriving children until those become self sufficient/successful. The he is the best one who has and uses brain to be responsible and satisfying the needs of the wife as well as the family.

Even persons chose of higher age fulfilling these criteria should not be a problem. You have to evaluate his qualities as a would be father.

Answer 5

Why do you even have to ask??!! You are sooooooooo right its not even funny. well atleast about the maturity part, maturity doesnt really come with age. like another person said a 40 yr old man could have the mentallity of a 18 yr old boy! You have a good head on your shoulders though.

Answer 6

what a foolish relation between age and being father ??? If some one is matured enough and able to take responsibility , that all !!! about living together, people get marry at age of 60yrs and people take divorce even living together 30 to 40 yrs and at age of 70yrs even. Are you in this world???

Answer 7

the one who becomes a father at the age of 30 +.

Answer 8

It all depends on the person. I know a 39 year old bachelor who thinks he's 18 and I know a 23 year old who is mature beyond his age.

Answer 9

23 is a better age (we had our first at about that age) --- 30 is getting a bit old to be able to cope with children as they grow older --- my brother in law was over 30 when they started having children and he just could not relly cope with them --- plus when they leave home he will be an old man and not able to enjoy life to the full ---- enjoy

Answer 10

age has nothing to do with it...there are guys who are 45 who cant handle being a father...it's in a man's character and how he was raised and what values he holds...i know guys who are real young and they are way more mature than some older guys i know