Analyze this quote: "It's whatever you want it to be."
Context: With regards to the relationship.
Is this a good thing/bad thing... what should I do... my next move? I think I'm doing good... am I wrong?
2007-12-19 13:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say "well i want it to be me and you" obv.
2007-12-19 13:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geeze, don't fall for it, lol! I think a lot of women want to be appealing to men by offering to have whatever kind of relationship the guy wants to have or to be casual and have a fling, or whatever the circumstances are. However, I personally believe that while many woman are genuine in offering this in the beginning, ultimately what they want is a committed relationship with security. Of all the girls I know, only one girl genuinely likes to be free and single and have flings. I'd say the majority of women are looking for committment.
It's not a bad thing that she's saying this, but keep in mind what she really wants. If you two have been going out for over a month or two, she mostly likely wants you to WANT to be in a committed relationship with her.
It's very complicated....
Sorry.
2007-12-19 21:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl sounds kind of young and indecisive and eager to please. It sounds like she's willing to define the relationship on your terms rather than hers and that is a bad, bad, bad thing because she is setting herself up for not being an equal partner in the relationship.
If you really want it to be a strong relationship you should talk with her about what kind of relationship she's looking for and if her idea matches your idea of what you want, then proceed. That is the nice thing to do. If you don't want to do the nice thing, go ahead and see how far you can get having everything your way. It sounds like it could happen
2007-12-19 21:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants a relationship, but isn't clear what you want. There is no real way to pass. Just don't lie to her... Even if you tell her what she wants to hear and lie... it'll hurt more than if you just tell her the truth.
2007-12-19 21:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by cresentrosetat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop analysing and start feeling --- what do you want from this relationship at this time??? --- tell her and be honest --- then see what she wants from it ---- best wishes
2007-12-19 21:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋