im a little too shy
2007-12-19 11:21:34 · 4 answers · asked by kwconk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is what I do. When someone dares you to do something, or makes a joke about doing something, before you have time to think, just do it! It's fun. Throw food in a movie theater every once in a while. When you see someone outside without a coat on tell them they're naked.
Just things like that. It will help a lot.
Sounds, weird, I know, haha.
2007-12-19 11:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by nikka.plz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to become more outgoing when your a really shy person. But i used to be shy and this is what i did.
1) First you need confidence- ALL the confidence you can get... cuz the biggest reason shy ppl are shy is they dont have confidence in themselves... they dont bellieve that wut they say really matters and so on so on...
the BEST and ONLY way to get complete confidence is trusting in God... He has sooo many verses that will reassure you that everything will be okay... for example theres this verse Hebrews 13:5
God says "Never will i leave you, Never will i forsake you"
So we can say with confidence, "WHat can MAN do to me?"
this verse can help you so much b.c if you really trust trust in God then you wont worry about what MAN [ppl] think or do to you.
There are a whole ton of verses too, that will show you that you really dont have to care about what other ppl think.. and stuff abuot how God made you special and has a SPECIFIC plan JUST for you [Jeremiah 29:11]
Now if you just put yourself in the BIble and read all about this God who really cares for you sooo much.. it will boost your confidence without you even knowing. Deff start out in the new testament and read all the 'ians' [galations ephesians collosians] and read the 1&2john and 12&3 peter and JAMES<333.. and your well on your way
2) if you dont think inward so much and think more about other ppl [i think phillipians ??] then youll worry less about yourself and what you think about yourself.. youll be opening up in no time
3) just keep praying about it, b.c duhhh God can help you with EERYTHING- "i can do all things through Christ who strentghens me [phillipians 2:8 i think??]" ... so keep telling yourself that .. b.c its truthhh...
youll be well on your way!!!!!! GOD BLESS<3333
2007-12-19 19:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by LiLyPooH 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Slowly build it up. Try doing things you're not used to doing. Shyness is just a fear of something you're not used to. Overcome fear by getting used to it.
2007-12-19 19:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Seiichiro Watari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile at guys once in a while :)
2007-12-19 19:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by NEVER EXISTED.... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋