1) Steals and uses credit cards from her daughter. Denies doing so and beats her daughter for accusing her of doing it and leaves her with the burden of paying them off.
2) Steals Car payments from her daughter and forces her daughter to pay for the fees and back payments.
3) Looks at her daughter with jealousy and anger writ all over her face and says “Look at the car you drive and what I have to drive”Even though the daughter is making all the payments for the car (see #2)
4) Promises to send her daughter in College $50 a week so that her daughter can look for a job after College grad Since she can no longer work 40hrs a week and interview but doesnt and instead takes younger daughter to younger daughter’s entire boyfriend’s out of state and out of town games and pays for them to stay in a hotel.
5) Promises to pay to get oldest daughter’s diploma framed, and pay for oldest daughter’s college graduation invitations. But never does.
6) Waits 4 years to ever come see daughter
2007-12-19 11:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by RockStarinTx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
7) Blames oldest daughter for any abuses husband inflicts on her, when ever she can. Even though husband has been inflicting these abuses
All her married life and has been advised by many to leave the husband.
8) runs her oldest daughter into the ground as a “ball busting career woman” to others
9) Throws a fit calls and texts husband b/c he’s speaking to oldest daughter alone.
10) Either waits to 2 years to tell her daughter something she should have told about daughter’s fiancé or lies about the fiancé just b/c she
Doesn’t like the fiancé
11) Tells lies in general about her daughter ( ie. Daughter calling mother white trash when daughter never did, and saying daughter kicked mother
Out of the house when daughter never did.
2007-12-19 11:22:09 · update #1
I'm 30 now. These are all past offesnses. The top 11 if you will. I keep trying to forgive and forgive but she always does somehting ot hurt me.
Should I get therapy?
2007-12-19 11:32:26 · update #2
No substance abuse here. Just insanity
2007-12-19 13:26:28 · update #3
Yes, therapy would probably be a good start.
2007-12-19 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by sincitykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only concern, is that you find a therapist.
Believe this can be resolved quickly, and you can let it go and move on.
I would think that you mother is, or was a drinker, the behavior is seen in alcoholism, part of the mental illness, caused by the use of that substance.
Just as a after thought, if I am correct in my thinking you might be well advised to start attending Alanon meetings.
2007-12-19 21:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by All-One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put as much distance as possible aWAY from the mother!! She's unbalanced and anyone having to live her around her will be unbalanced, too, trying to deal with her!! Are you the daughter? Move, get into a student dorm; get student loans and get on with your own education and LIFE!!!! DON"T count on ANYTHING from her, and you'll have a chance at a decent life! Otherwise???? Not much chance.
2007-12-19 19:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Martell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know she's your mom, and she's family... but she has problems. You're an adult now... you have your OWN life, concentrate on that. Your mother is just going to bring you down, which you don't need anymore. If anyone needs therapy I think it would be your mom....
2007-12-19 19:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Riley's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were the daughter, i would tell my friends and other adults and have them call child survices because the mother sounds crazy. if you are talking about yourself, get someone to make that call because if you don't, it will just go on and on forever.
2007-12-19 19:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by ▫□ █ ▄ ▀Square▀ ▄ █ □▫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋