This is like torment...
For the past 2 months I've been wondering if this girl likes me or not. She's always constantly looking at me, laughing at my jokes, etc.
But 2 weeks ago she gave me weird, somewhat angry and some upset looks, and I kinda backed off.
But this week, she's starting to get more friendlier and she doesn't have too much of a sad look on her face, but she still occasionally looks in my direction.
Now CAN I even ask her out? or no?
Help...
2007-12-19 10:58:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't have a friend ask her. if you do that, the girl might think you are cowardly. i ALWAYS make a point of saying no when that happens.
however, are you friends with this girl? how is your relationship status with her or her friends? i would probably try and catch her when she is alone and ask, or a note wouldn't be too bad of an idea. make sure you get your spelling and grammar correct (ie, don't be lazy with it!)
i think you should definitely still go for it. the worst she could do is say no. and then you would know for sure and move on.
2007-12-19 11:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is this torment?? Go up to this girl and ask her to do some last minute christmas shopping with you.
From the sound of it, you barely know her, and you are interpreting some look she had on her face as being about you.
I can guarantee you, her world doesn't revolve around you,
that is for absolute certain. Right now, you aren't even anywhere in th realm of even putting expressions on her face.
Don't be paranoid.
2007-12-19 19:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well fella, maybe the reason she was getting weird is cause you weren't making a move. You never know how something is gunna turn out before you try it, so just ask her to go to the beach with you or if you are in the northern hemisphere to help build a snowman or something. Just ask her to come do something, or if that is too awkward just organise a group thing. Meh i dont know. Sometimes it just pays to go in for the kill i spose.
2007-12-19 19:03:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ed G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey !!!!
Relax - Don't rush anything.
You're young by the sound of things, and trust me, you may have to wait quite a while until you find the right girl.
She may like you, she may not.... The least you can do is try.
With failure, you eventually learn success.
With experience, you eventually get what you want.
2007-12-19 19:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by MikeD2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang out with her some more, make it more natural. Give it a little more time. She might have herd something about you she didn't like earlier, or just be having a bad week. Don't rush things or she'll be freaked out.
2007-12-19 19:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by rockoutchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. Do it. She may be upset because you're taking so long. Get over it and do it. Nothing turns a girl off like lack of confidence,
2007-12-19 19:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by SSB662 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like u dont even talk to this girl, just look at her. well if you do talk, i would suggest asking her out. but if its that akward and all u do is stare, i would suggest that u talk to her more often....2 weeks ago couldve been her time of the month -_^ lol
2007-12-19 19:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by BrockyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her with a direct question, She likes you, and has invited you to see that she has a diverse personality. This is a compliment for a women. happy or sad you will get both with her she is genuine.
2007-12-19 19:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dale D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you
since i am a girl
i as well like this boy and i sometimes give him bad looks because im so mad at him that hes taking a long time to ask me out i know he likes me hes just playing the game grrr boys!!!
2007-12-19 19:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by a.star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah you should ! Anyways she probraly got something on her head that was getting her mad the last 2 weeks.
2007-12-19 19:02:22 · answer #10 · answered by dominik t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋