There's this new guy in my school and he has been looking at me for a long time and i know he likes me cause he is very sweet But he dont know anything about my life.
I have a very terrible and horrible past that i cannot get over and i have been VERY depressed.I have a lil mentally chal.bro that i have been taking care for a long time and cause of him i dont get to go out anywhere,before you say anything why dont my parents takecare of him or i need to get professional help that's not the answer.My life is spiritual means God wanted me to do this and i cannot get out of this until God dont wishes to.If you dont understand PLEASE DO Not ANSWER!!!Because i dont want any rude comments.
I REALLY wanna move on since im getting older(im 16+)And people say that im not letting go of my past but the truth is my past wont let me go!! I like this guy but if there has been any reason for me not dating it has been my life.I dont wish to be in a relationship cause of how bad my life is.Whenever i have tried to,something bad has always happened that stoped me and it hurts me to see how much life is troubling me : ( My friend say that i should date this guy but i cant unfurtunatly i dont know what to do any words or encouragement?
2007-12-19 09:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
OK PEOPLE i didn't ask for any"non dating advice" i appreciate ya'll helping me but all i wanted to know what to do i dont need to know that i should not be dating or anything im more mature for that and i know what to do!!!!!
2007-12-19 10:09:30 · update #1
You devalue your current life yet you believe that God has a purpose for you. This is self-contradictory I would simply encourage you to live life for God. If you give your life to Jesus Christ in service of him living his way, there is no possible way to ever say that life sucks, or it has no value.
Recognize also that men are not accessories, and we're not going to make your life "better." Only more complicated in the long run. But once youre ready to get married, there is no other greater challenge then perhaps maintaining a good Godly marriage and family. But recognize that relationships are simply MORE WORK. So if youre ready for more work, then go for it and get married.
2007-12-19 10:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-04 01:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all PAST is PAST
no matter its situation
God has forgiven , God has forgot
NOW...This thing about dating at 16...honestly
your still young...dont rush to soemthing you are not ready for
God does not say ""date""...what he says is for the elder to teach the younger....and your still a child yourself...and allow yourself to grow up more.
Now with that said i'll say this..just cause a guy is looking doesnt make him the "one".....If it is Gods will and your going to follow Christ ..then it will be HIM who will supply the " one" and that one will FIT into your life without wondreing whether it will affect it by your past or your Brother..........
Trust in God..wait upon the LORD and HE will renew your strength...and HE and HE alone KNOWS , what others cannot...and HE KNOWS what is right for you...and WHOM is Right for you.........
All you need at this point is the wrong to sway you away and cause more harm then good....throwing you again the wrong way.....FOLLOW GOD
and HE will LEAD YOU to where you need to be...and if there is a WHOM...He will supply just that RIGHT ONE that fits what HE is Doing in YOU !!!!
2007-12-19 09:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by hghostinme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First don't be convinced that this guy is "Mr Perfect" or that dating him will solve your problems. Mr Perfect is the one that God will bring to you, so continue to do what God has given you to do and wait until God opens the door. Set some rules for yourself that are Biblical, first don't date him if he is not a real true Christian. Second, don't date him if your parents are not 100% in favor of it, and wait. While you are waiting God will be building character into your life and after all that is what God asks us to do first. "Seek first God's kingdom and His righteousness, and ALL THEESE THINGS will be added unto you."
2007-12-19 09:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by oldguy63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise with you, I really do! But, what is your objection to seeking help? God gave humans the skills to help each other out, whether by counselling or medication, or providing practical and caring help. It is no sign of weakness but a sign of strength to accept help - you have to give God a chance to help you!!!! I agree that maybe this guy could be understanding - if he isn't then he's not worth it!
2007-12-19 09:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Girl Kojak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the boy really likes you then he will understand your situation and he might even support you in your situation. your seem to me like a Good person for taking care of your brother. and no one should get in your way of doing this. so if this boy is a good person then he will understand and not prevent you from doing this. maybe he is a helper sent to you from God but you will not know unless you test it.
2007-12-19 10:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, not religious, but don't care, I'm answering anyways.
Doesn't your god WANT you to be happy? And don't waste chances. Life only happens once, so do what you can before you're dead.
2007-12-19 09:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God never wants us to miserable when we serve him, it should bring you great joy, so maybe you need to discern the spirits in this.
2007-12-19 09:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm an american born muslim tell him about your situation...you never know, he may understand. it could be your love match. i wish you the best.
2007-12-19 09:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by sulaimaan ibn ya'quub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you belong to a church? Is there someone there you can talk to?
2007-12-19 09:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋