See my ex boyfriend hit me across the face, he left a pretty good bruise. But the thing is I still love him and miss him alot....and this isn't the first time something like this has happened......he's threatened me and verbally abused me. What should I do? I'm confused and I don't know what to think anymore. Do you think I should tell someone? Or keep it quiet? Or should I let it all go and move on? Help!
2007-12-19 09:22:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OH MY GOD! NO ONE SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE THAT! go and call the police or tell your friends about this. let him go from your life and try to move on and don't talk to him anymore.
-JakeR'sGirl4Ever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-19 09:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
ok first off you should go to the police, and second i know this is blunt but, whats wrong with you?! How could you want someone that treats you that way! there are soooo many better guys out there. I think that after you tell the police (so other woman dont get hurt) leave the a**whole! These thing could get seriuos fast! You could get hurt a lot worse than a bruise on the face! Please get help!
2007-12-19 09:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get a move on in life... there will be other guys... your ex is abusing u... he has no right even to touch you...report him to someone... like tell the guidance counselor and make a request not to let ur ex know u complained and tell the guidance counselor to make it seem like a 3rd person point of view, so that he doesn't find out. And when he tries to hit you again, tell him it's not appreciated.
2007-12-19 09:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Angel93♥Chasing dreams♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a police report for assault, and do it now while there is still evidence, because if you don't get away from this "lover "
boy now while you are still ALIVE---- your friends and surviving relatives can use the report to have him arrested for your murder-------You Do get where I'm coming from, don't you? This never gets better from your stand point, and will only escalate to more increasing violence! Did you see the TV movie starring Ms. Lopez? Go and take a martial arts class and kick HIS ***!
2007-12-19 09:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.........leave him alone and move on. But learn from this guy and how he treated you.
Now I will tell you something that an abuser once told me. If you allow a man to hit you once and you let him get away with it he will hit you again. Now how do you not let a man hit you a second time...........you leave them.
You don't need help........you need a dose of selfrespect, and self worth.........YOUR BETTER THAN THIS CRAP AREN'T YOU. You want to love someone and you want them to love you back..........right? Love is not intentionally mean like this. If you love someone do you want to see them hurt? No!
Do you want to hurt them? No!
This is your life and your gonna run into some speed bumps all along the way, like you did with this guy.........learn something from it because you need too.........if you didn't you would't be asking this question.
2007-12-19 09:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by MLJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone before he hurts you worse than he has. He may tell you he is sorry and you will forgive him but it will happen again. Its a vicious circle. Trust me on this one, he wont ever stop doing it.
There are guys out there that dont hit women... you will find one of those.
Good luck to you!!!
2007-12-19 09:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This isn't the first or the last time he will do somethinglike this to you. I hope you don't go back to him. If you have someone that you can talk to without feeling as though they will tell everyone in the world about it, I would let it out and talk about it. You can't keep this inside. Talk about it and you will feel better.
2007-12-19 09:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by momma`````` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell someone about it and let him go.Maybe if you file charges or something and he already has a past of that the court might not find him guilty on something.
2007-12-19 09:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Hopesdielast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, if she is attempting to make you jealous then perhaps she's no longer in all possibility your appropriate pal. Plus i do no longer think of it counts as hitting on her except it became greater thank like 5 minuets besides, i does no longer bounce to conclusions until there is nice information. digital mail me in case you like greater advice =)
2016-11-23 15:53:31 · answer #9 · answered by molander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...shout it out. This is important throw his butt into jail or something. I know that you love him but you are making the wrong choice. If he reallt loved you, he wouldnt hurt you in any kind of way.
2007-12-19 09:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Momo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋