OK, I had a date with a guy I really like and I had a great time. Now what? Should I sit tight and wait for him to make the next move (since I hear guys like "the chase") or should I say something to him? He said more than once that we "should do this again." I kinda want him to get in touch with me first, but I don't know how men think.
2007-12-19 09:06:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was just yesterday, btw.
2007-12-19 09:16:11 · update #1
Piss on how men date and what they want. What do you want? If you like this guy, give him a call. If he says no it's his loss.
If you wait on one of us guys to get smart you could be alone a lot. You want to go with a guy then ask right up front.
Guys don't act because they are scared or worried you will say no. We have no balls when it comes to women. Except men that treat women badly and girls see attracted too... weird.
Go for it if you want it. Don't mess out on some fun because we guys might be uptight about hearing that NO come out of your mouths.
Good Luck.
2007-12-19 09:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Panama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Its the new millenium gal. If both sexes are equall, better make that move if you like him. Off course coming on too strong is a turn off most of the time for both sexes but look around and see which girls get luckier with the guys. The bold girls or the timid ones. It s the same the other way round too. Goodluck gal
2007-12-19 17:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by God Eros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are dating a shy guy he may never make the move, an aggressive guy may see it as making u too easy a target, but if he's a normal guy (which if you're a normal chick you aren't interested in), he only needs you to show that you are open to his advances and he will proceed. We tend to be careful of bruising our egos, and will only put ourselves out on a limb if we're confident we'll be successful. Hopefully you'll be patient and if he's interested he'll test your interest level before asking you out again. If he does not call you may want to leave it be as he is either not interested or terribly meek, and those are two paths you may not want to follow.
2007-12-19 17:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally hate the "chase" and believe that the only reason people play games is because they are both confused as to what the other person is feeling/thinking. I think that it is always best to be open with your feelings. If you want to do something, call him up, he will be flattered; If the guy is not flattered he is probably not worth pursuing anyway
2007-12-19 17:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by Dustin F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him text him and ask what is up and when are we going out again. Dont be persistent and seem desperate but letting him know you want to go out saves a lot of stress and games. It is amazing how unsure a guy can be how you really felt as lots of times you just are polite and dont want to hurt our feelings. Text him and see what is up and go have a good time!!!! Yes we love the chase but knowing you like us doesnt hurt things, just heightens the game!!!!!
2007-12-19 17:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by belbiv1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its dangerous to generalize and think that all men like the chase or all men like for the girl to call them. We're all different. You just need to be you and if it happens then it happens. If not, there's plenty of fish in the sea as they say.
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2007-12-19 17:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by The man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be shy and his idea of telling you that he wants to go out again might be him giving you the chance to call him. I would say that if you like him give him a call. I love it when a girl can't wait for me to call her and she takes the initiative, makes me feel good and I know that she likes me.
2007-12-19 17:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by david h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago was it? I think you have to play the waiting game. He should be the one to make the first move.
2007-12-19 17:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id wait, dont let him know hes got u yet,. It will go to his head, make him sweat a little.. THis should keep things interesting and make him want u even more
2007-12-19 17:11:20 · answer #9 · answered by Antwan DUBBA U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wait, you WILL wait. Let go of all the 'girl talk' advice. Follow your common sense.
If you want to be with someone, do you call or don't you call ?
2007-12-19 17:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Sergio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋