Help with a boy, please?

Question

I really like this guy, but we dont have any classes together and he's one year older than me. about two months ago, he started dropping hints that he likes me, but im not sure how he feels about me anymore.
How can i walk up to him and start a conversation and possibly ask him to hang out over the weekend?

Answer 1

This one is simple, it just seems complicated because your nervous. two ways of doing this.

the first is if you have a mutual friend.

If you have a mutual friend get him/her to help, NOT to do it for you, but to get you into a conversation with this guy.

the second is if you don't

Just find him when he is alone. NOT when his friends are around, it makes it much harder. say something casual like. "Hi, i was wondering have you (seen / been to ) " if he says no ask him if he is interested in going with you this weekend. If you just want to hang out the best method is the plain and simple "Do you want to hang out this weekend" but don't say it straight away, get into a conversation with him

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Answer 2

You gotta have a reason to talk to him. That way you don't look like you're hitting on him and you don't wind up looking like a fool.

First go up to him with something lame like about a class he's taking that you plan on taking next semester and wanted to know about the teacher or if the assignments are hard. OR ask him if you've seen so and so lately, just something to start up the convo.

Then say, "oh by the way..." and mention you and some friends are gonna hang and ask him if he wants he can come along etc. Make it seem like it's not a big deal and see if he says yes. Not that you should play hard to get, just don't act desperate for him. haha.

Also mentioning a movie you want to see can help. If he says he'd like to see it say, "well, why don't we go see it this weekend?" again acting cool as if it's no biggie. haha.

But, don't worry about acting like a fool because he probably still likes you. Chances are he'll say yes to anything you ask.

Answer 3

Be blunt. When you are sure you have enough time jump towards the situation. Don't seem to eager. Just go up to him and say (casually) Are you by any chance busy this weekend? Suggeat something fun like a movie or if he's the type who likes to study. Break a nail or to in football, show him your interested and he'll take his turn to show you. Remember not too eager!

Answer 4

Just do it.
Confidence is really attractive in anyone.
He'd probably admire you for making the first move.
You don't necessarily have to ask him out on a date right away, you can just start a conversation. Say hello, how are you, petty stuff.
And maybe throw in the whole "we should hang out"
and Viola!
=]Hope I helped darling.

Answer 5

Well, you should get some friends together to go bowling. This would make it something low-key and fun for everyone, and plus you have plenty of time to set it up. Ask him how he's been and tell him that you've missed talking to him, and then ask him what he's doing on Saturday at 7:00 (for example) and say "Hey, me and a bunch of friends are going to the bowling alley. You should go with us!" It can be that simple. Hope it goes well!

Answer 6

Sometimes when I smoke pot, I see a hot girl and I say "oooh ooh!!! very nice!!" See, I drop hints but then I feel sad because I want the girl to give me some weed and a lap dance/porn. Unfountuantly, it turn out that the hot chick wasnt a chick- i found she was a man with massive 50-lb man boobs and ghanria. But you should probably go hang out with him. You could also hang out with me if you bring some weed.

Answer 7

You can walk up to him and start a conversation by walking up to him and starting a conversation. Just don't put too much thought into it, ask him how he is and what is new! This will hopefully break the ice.

Answer 8

Dont be shy, because that will never get u anywhere. just be cool about it if u see him in the hallway just be like hey! and ask him whats been up and everything since he might still possibly like u he would talk to u and w.e, then go like u noe we never talk anymore..maybe we should hang out or something dont be too pushy or else ull scare him off but just try to be friendly and most likely he;ll say yes..in life we always have to take chances gurl! gud luck!!

Answer 9

Just start a normal conversation then before u leave ask him if he wants to

Answer 10

Well you making the move is cool. It will show him your confident. But you need to just casually start talking to him maybe get his # so you know for sure that you like him then pop the question if he hasn't already.