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My name is Amera and im 16 i had sex with a 18 yr old boy round my area he told me all sorts of things like he loved me and stuff but then when i left him he started getting mad i never knew until the day i started getting morning sickness my mother was getting curious but i told her my tummy hurt then i went to the clinic to ask for some pregenant tests and the they helped me with it. My mother soon catched on and told my father i was in trouble but they where mad and kicked me out i now live with my boyyfriend and my 2 kids i got back with my 18 yr old boyfriend but now they is a dark side to him he abuses me and doesnt love me as much as he used to i think he's hurt form what i had done to him before because now he doesnt seem so friendly. He beat me with a whip once on my back and told everyone it was a accident and everyone thought i was crazy because he was making up sotries about me cutting myself and falling down the stairs i now am pregenant again anyway this time its not his

2007-12-19 08:31:15 · 16 answers · asked by MissyAngel 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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Wow, how long did it take you to think up this story ! I don't believe any of it.

If you ALREADY had two other kids, why would your mom even give a rip if you're pregnant again.

Get a life.

2007-12-19 08:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by question asker 4 · 1 0

Oh im so sorry. That must be awful at such a young age. First leave your boyfriends house immediatly. Im sorry your parents would have no sympathy for a teenager who is there own daughter! Also you should stop sleeping with guys. You are going to have tons of kids if you keep it up. Im not going to tell you what you did was wrong because im sure you have been told that a million times. Your boyfriend the 1rst one obviosuly has some issues. You should leave. Just Curious what happened to the first kid? Well after all that i hope you get through this pregnancy and have two beautiful kids. Have you ever seen the show Gilmore Girls? The mom is sixteen when she has the daughter and there very close. Please don't even consider abortion. You will love your kids even at sixteen. If you have to give the baby up for adoption then that is better the abortion. You are still young not married and have a whole live in front of you. Make good choices. And Remember everything happens for a reason. God knows whats best.Even now it might me hard to believe its true. I wish you the best of Luck and i hope you have a Merry Christmas.

2007-12-19 08:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm really sorry that your are in this situation and I don't mean this in a ugly way, but if you already have 2 children and have another on the way, you need to stop spreadin them legs. But the most important thing you need to remember is that you need to use some birth control.

You really need to leave his butt, the abuse will only get worse.

Go after the fathers for child support, they should be taking care of these children.

2007-12-19 08:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Rhianna 3 · 0 0

So why don't you learn from this third mistake of getting pregnant(since you didn't the other two times) that premarital sex is a BAD idea. Why'd you go back to the boyfriend bum? Go to a women's shelter. They'll help you with what you need. And remember, no more sex until you are married. Honestly, you need to get away from him, because this time, when he finds out the baby isn't his, he may very well kill you.

2007-12-19 08:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Okay first, if you are being abused at your boyfriend's house ... then you need to definately leave him. that is not love - thats abuse!
second, you have 2 kids already with this guy? AND you are 16?? did you not have access to birthcontrol?
third, go to the local woman's shelter. there they can work on provided homes for your children so you can go back to school and maybe learn how to write a paragraph. They will also provide necessary appointments for you and your unborn child.

my advice, leave your bum 18 year old boyfriend .. um, today.

2007-12-19 08:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 6 · 0 0

Oh dear. You've got yourself into one heck of a mess! Leave him is what you should do. You're 16 and can get a job to support yourself. The government can help you with whatever you need. Go to your local office and sign up for everything you can. Get a job after that and get on your feet so you can leave that loser of a boy and take care of yourself and kids. They're number one, not him. There's plenty of other fish in the sea.

2007-12-19 08:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by gothmomma_2 1 · 0 0

I think you did the wrong thing i am 14 and i think i am smarter then you think you are the first boyfriend you should live him kick him out call the police if he does that again better call Dr.Fill he will help you a lot So tell me your parents kicked you out What did they say when they heared you where pregnite ???

2007-12-19 08:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by Merry K 1 · 0 0

well id suggest if the child is not his to move out and live on your own. get a job or somethin but live single as he doesnt loves you either. talk to the person whose child you are caring as it might help. if it doesnt move out and live a stress free life with your three wonderful kids and think of giving them a better future.

2007-12-19 08:36:59 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 1 · 0 0

you're 16 and have 2 kids and a 3rd on the way? what is wrong with you? how about not having sex? have you filed for child support for each of your kids from their fathers? if not, why not? grow up.

2007-12-19 08:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You take your kids and go to an abused women's shelter and ask for help. If you have on line access, you can find the nearest to you and get their info, contact them and get help.

2007-12-19 08:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0 0

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