Okay i have been talking to this guy for almost 2 months now, he calls me every night and we hangout every weekend, also he invited me to his family christmas get together and he always jokes around and says " did u talk to your other boyfriend today?" or he says " you need to get rid of all your other boyfriends, but i really dont hav any...so should i assume that we are dating?? would it freak him out if i told people we were dating?
2007-12-19 05:27:22 · 15 answers · asked by jacee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about you sit down and speak to him... I understand.. number 1 thing people neglect in a relationship is COMMUNICATION... With communication the relationship goes alot more smooth..
2007-12-19 05:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Johnny Pumps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you probably don't want to have that conversation where you try to establish "what you are" in this little situation. But it looks like you might have to eventually face the music.
Although, if he's taking you to meet his parents: a) that's a good sign that you are indeed dating, and b) he might introduce you to your parents as his girlfriend or whatever at that point. His jokes and stuff make it seem like he is wanting to date you exclusively. I wouldn't go around announcing to everybody that you are in a relationship, but I like the idea of saying that you are dating... still... I don't think I'd tell everybody, just so I don't come out looking like an idiot if I found out I was wrong.
2007-12-19 05:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...
technically you are emotionally ..
if you guys are talkin on the phone and hanging out every weekend ...
and most importantly he is bringing you to family functions ..
but u cant just asume you guys are because he never offically asked you to be his girlfriend ...
be patient and when that day finally comes that he does ask u to be his main lady then you can go around and say to two are togther until then calm your hormons..
because god for bid if u two dont work out n he never asked you out or someone goes back to him and says that u told them u are dating and he says no u will look like an idiot!
good luck! :)
2007-12-19 05:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by John 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, I don't see the harm in doing that. And if he's saying stuff like that then I think you two should be comfortable enough with each other to ask something like that. I'm sure he'll say yes!
Happy Holidays!
2007-12-19 05:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by iluvsummersunset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tides on him....when he says you need to get rid of all you other boyfriends, just laugh and say "aww, you know you are the only boyfriend for me" and see what he says
2007-12-19 05:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mom_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should just ask him what is going on with you two. Let him know that you are interested in him and want to be dating him. It seems like you are if he is brining you around his family.
2007-12-19 05:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he wants to date you but maybe hes scared of what youll think. Talk to him about it. Find out for sure if you guys are ready to make that commitment to each other.
2007-12-19 05:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he definately likes you and is jealous of your other guy friends. simple solution: ask the guy himself if he considers you both to be in a relationship. ask jokingly, so you have no chances of creeping him out. im sure he will say yes, though. good luck with him, he sounds like a sweet guy!
2007-12-19 05:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is def .. dating. But if you are this confused.. why dont u ask?.. just plain and simple.. "hey are we dating?" let him knw you are confused as part of being together or not.. or just wait it out and see how he introduces you to his family.. and how that day goes.. I think that will be your answer.. =) and he can be ur xmas gift!!!!! =)
2007-12-19 06:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by GIGI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't invite you to his family christmas if you weren't.
Tell people you are dating.
2007-12-19 05:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋