2007-12-19 00:59:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just read a question about a girl who was really hurt cause her bf cheated & lied to her. She was asking how can she get over how he mistreated her. She slept with him & he was her first bf.
Now guys, is it ok if we PLAY YOU & Dump YOU???
2007-12-19 01:02:33 · update #1
I dont think it is good to categorize all guys in that category, from personal experience I can say the same thing about gals, I think its no good for anyone to play games and hurt another, especially when someone reaches out and cares for you..., its better not to live a lie.
Have a cookie
2007-12-19 01:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying: "Life is more like a jar of jalapenos, what you eat today may burn your *** tomorrow" It really means the same as the what comes around goes around, but it puts things in another perspective.
If you want people to play games with you, play games with them. Don't go treating people bad because someone treated you bad. It doesn't bring you to their level, it brings you down much further. I hope you are not that type of person, good luck
2007-12-19 09:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Definitely play them and dump them-hard! But it's only fair that you give them what they want first.
But it IS a serious question and I have to agree with Richard. I've run into a lot of women who are extremely selfish; who clearly never developed any semblance of a conscience. So it IS a two way street.
2007-12-19 10:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by golfer7 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only play the "players". We pretty much all can spot a player so if you can tell he's an a$$ with bad intentions, by all means, get him before he gets you. But don't go around trying to make victims out of every guy for no reason. If he truly is a nice guy or a good person, he doesn't deserve that and it's also bad karma for you.
2007-12-19 09:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Don't take one incident and assume that all 3 billion males on the planet behave the way the guy you are referring to did.
Treat people as individuals...and as you'd like them to treat you. What goes around, comes around. If you "play and dump" people, you are okaying it to be done to you.
2007-12-19 09:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Sure why not. From my experience, some women seem to do that anyway. Men get hurt too, ya know?
2007-12-19 09:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus M 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Girls do that to guys all the time! Have you been living in a cave, or did you really not realize that?
2007-12-19 11:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My mom always said - What goes around comes around.
You play them, you might just find yourself getting played someday.
2007-12-19 09:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Wanda 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
its women that play guys and dump them that make us insensitive. be part of the solution not the problem
2007-12-19 09:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
If you feel that *all* guys are untrustworthy and deserve to be hurt, then by all means, behave that way.
Don't be surprised, however, when you find yourself lonely, cynical and single.
2007-12-19 09:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋