saying no to a guy then wanting him later means your:stupid?,dumb? or just plain weird?
2007-12-19 00:00:08 · 14 answers · asked by Be still 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
It means you are human. You probably made a decision once and now realise that was probably wrong. Just that. And nothing else at all. :-)
Let us see the issue. When you said no to a person once, you said that with whatever constraints you had at that time, in whatever position you were at that time, and whatever confidence you had about him at that time.
And now, we dont know how long later, obviously some of those conditions with which you came to that decision at that time seem to have changed and you feel that decision was probably incorrect and so you might want the person.
What is dumb, stupid or weird in it?
What is anything at all bad in it if you feeling to correct the earlier decision and hopefully that gentleman does not have any issue in accepting your new decision?
Honey, we are all humans. And we make plenty of decisions. Some of them may look wrong later, some of them will turn right. If you think you want to correct it and if you think you still have an opportunity to correct, rush, seek him and tell him sorry and tell him your new decision. :-)And if you feel your earlier decision was wrong and if you dont anymore have an opportunity to correct it, please forget about it and that gentleman also. Stop feeling guilty and calling you dumb etc, instead think that you could better the next time and try to be happy. Immerse yourself in some activities you like and bring bak all your enthusiasm... Remember this is season of cheers and festive spirit..
This is all I can say with the information you have provided.
Take care.. All the best..
Merry Christmas and a Very Happy New Year to You.. I
2007-12-19 00:24:22 · answer #1 · answered by doer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of those baby girl.
You are just a little confused.
Ask yourself these questions and perform a honest insight.
1) Do you feel confident about his feelings towards you?
2) Are you ready to have an intimate relationship?
3) Do you feel physically attracted to him?
4) Are you comfortable with your body and the way you look?
Question #4 is really important! You have to know that a guy when he is having sex with the gal he loves, he does not care that much about her physical condition.
Think about it, be honest with yourself, and just do what you really feel like doing, cos if you do it without been ready, you will regret latter.
Peace.
2007-12-19 08:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Elias Bezerra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it means you made a mistake, and you took the time to figure out if you liked them or not. You shouldn't say stuff like that because that's what people do! Get a Life, no that's rude sorry, Get a Real Opinion
2007-12-19 08:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by LiiLY PAD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing up with playing it safe, but there is a lot wrong with being a tease and leading people on, make a decision and stick to it.
2007-12-19 08:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, guess so and not much regards from him too...
better to stick to "no" when it has been said. soory but old fashioned hard to get is safer here?
be wiser next time and give a neither yes or no and it would b eesaier to revert back....lol.
make him guessing.....
2007-12-19 08:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by constructor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
altogether and/or found out stmth new about him or changed ur mind about what made u say no the first time
2007-12-19 08:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means you're a woman. Want what you can't have, have what you think you can change.
2007-12-19 08:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by conor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the above
2007-12-19 08:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people think playing 'hard to get' is appealing...I personally, do not.
2007-12-19 08:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you're flickle minded.
2007-12-19 08:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by john need account 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋