i was just conscious on what would be the answer of the people who experienced this pre-marital intercourse..if pre-marital sex is prohibited, and must be saved until marriage,what provoked you to do this kind of stuff?
2007-12-18 22:21:05 · 9 answers · asked by jannwei_snookie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It kills me how people talk about sex like we are just common animals we relate to sex like cats and dogs is that really where we want to place sex in our life?
Sex should be for mature adults not children. Anytime you have sex you put yourself at risk of becoming pregnant even if you practice safe sex. I don't think a child has the maturity to deal with that situation. Every time you have sex you put yourself at risk for contacting a std I don't think a child has the maturity to deal with that either.
I do not think there is anything wrong with waiting to get married to have sex. Oh my goodness I said a dirty word marriage yes marriage I said it lol. I disagree with a lot of the people on this question about marriage not being worth the paper it is written on the paper is not what makes a marriage it is the people in the marriage that make it work not the paper. Don't blame marriage for two people not making it that was their decision not to work it out.
BTW I have seen plenty of marriages work out as well. My parents for instance were married for 55 years and loved each other dearly only separated by the death of my Father. My Aunt and Uncle were married until he died the same for a Friend of mine. I could go on but time and space are limited.
Think about it if you go to a party and your partner has slept with just about everybody in the room wouldn't that make you a little bit uncomfortable knowing they shared something so personal with just anybody. I guess it will always be just sex for them not making love to you but just sex because heck we can do it with anybody no big deal right?
2007-12-19 00:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by mdjgirl7 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prohibited by who? It's not prohibited by anybody. All you need are two consenting adults.
I didn't really do it at an early age like a young teen, but I didn't wait for marriage.
Firstly I'm not sure if I'll ever get married. It's kind of presumptuous to assume somebody will want me. And I've seen some really nasty divorces, I want no part in that. The other person might not save themselves and they might also cheat. I am human and have a biological urge to have sex, other activities just aren't the same. Also, I didn't know how long I'd have to wait, what if I became paraplegic or something, and couldn't have sex and regretted never trying?
In an ideal world yes it would be nice if we all met a person who we loved at a young age and stayed with them and they were faithful and it was all good forever with no STDs etc but that just doesn't happen.
To the person who says it's two people's choice not to make the marriage work - not true. You have to put all your trust in another person. You can love them and try and judge them but when it comes down to it some people CHEAT and WALK AWAY after 20, 30, 40 years of marriage, even if the other party wants to continue. I don't want to take that risk. I think cheating is much worse than pre-marital sex and yes some people cheat because they regret not being promiscuous when they were young. I wish it weren't true, but I'm not going to pretend it isn't.
2007-12-19 00:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a higher chance of developing cancer of the cervix and other such illnesses to do with the reproductive organs.
Curiousity is why most people delve into pre-marital sex. When something is on offer, you generally just want to grab it and yield to temptation.
Hormones are normally another aspect.
Marriage is nothing really these days but a piece of paper. Unlike a few decades ago, 2 people can live together without being married and not be called sinners or be disowned by their families, people have children together and have their own problems whether married or not so in my opinion, marriage isn't worth the paper it's written on, it has no meaning anymore.
I don't wish to get married, maybe i will change my mind one day but as far as I'm concerned, I've met the man i want to spend my life with, we live together and have sex so what difference would marriage really make?!
2007-12-18 22:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Dal Mad! ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it hasn't affected me much overall. I began having consensual sex at 13 (screw what the law says, to me, if you understand what you're doing and can make an informed decision, then you can give consent) and there's nothing really different about me. Sure, I like sex, but it's not something that affects me seriously.
In the case of pregnancy, I've gotten pregnant twice (both accidents while using condoms that broke) and miscarried for reasons other than sexual interference or age. The first time was young stupidity that I beat myself up over, the second, my hormones just didn't change right. In any case, I have been emotionally and psychologically prepared for kids since I was very young.
Actually doing it the first time though, I dunno. It kinda felt right and I thought he cared. Even though we didn't love each other in the "right" way for sex, we're still friends to this day, so no real regrets.
2007-12-18 22:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Shel K 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this question makes me laugh, i had sex when i was 16.. mainly coz my mother thought i was a slut and accused me of having sex with an older guy at the age of 13.. i left home at 16.. i spose it all coincided with that!
i dont regret having sex.. i do regret doing it with the person i did it with!
i got married last week, and we have had sex right from when we got togther, we werent even going to get married because like someone above said.. he felt that marriege isnt worth anything these days! but i changed his mind i love the though of being a wife.. and because i had sex i know what im doing and without blowing my own horn.. i do everything the way he wants it!
i please my man and thats the main thing i would never take back having sex before being married!
2007-12-18 23:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some females bloom late and it would be unfair to allow social pressures to upset her early life. Keeping things prohibited allows everyone to develop as needed. Unfortunately the depression chemicals are devastating the first time you feel them on the medulla. If they were felt earlier in life you can have a tolerance for depression pain by the time you are ready to marry.
2007-12-18 22:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I started messing about at the age of 9 and my Hymen broke when I was 11.
I think I was one of those girls who knew from very little that I liked what boys had in their pants, and let them feel my breasts so that I could feel their .............
All the same, I think that it made me richer and better in bed, and quite used to stuff virgins may feel offended or opposed to doing.
I think I will be a very fine wife and lover to my eventual husband one day.
Nothing I do not know about when it comes to love making
2007-12-18 22:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, intercourse and how many cases you ejaculate won't result your top. i know adult adult males who've on no account wanked, who're as tall as me. and then ones who have not merely wanked yet had intercourse and are as tall as me and that i kinda **** lots and am 5'9 and 3 quarters. So i know by way of having a lot of pals(all the examples I gave you have been guy pals) that has no result.
2016-10-08 22:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
might be very lucky.
2007-12-18 22:39:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋