2007-12-18 22:06:15 · 9 answers · asked by rijin 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
The best solution to this is to not be selfish yourself. Lead by example. You will affect others with your life. Work with children or bring up your own to see your ideals. Work in your corner of the world. People are flawed. They come from all kinds of difficult circumstances. Don't expect to change everything. Work toward the good, help others, and value the positive things you can contribute to the world. Don't give selfish people the power to make you hate life. Take your power back and mold the positive for yourself.
2007-12-18 22:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could do, if selfishness is really bothering you is you can create leaflets, posters etc to promote this and to liven up peoples lifes by telling them about the nagatives of selfishness. You can also create your own group in which all you can talk about is how to reduce selfishness.
2007-12-19 06:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by F34D0RA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to accept that life is, by nature, cruel. That's life. Just learn to get along with it and prepare yourself for the bad feelings that Life brings. Just always remember that you must not give up your nature to love, your nature of being selfless just because they are selfish. Do not become like them. that is not the answer and it never will be. Goodluck!
2007-12-19 06:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start with youself
try 2 help others out
but dont forget 2 leave a litlle time 4 urself
voleenteer at an elderly folks home
spca
holiday programme
have fun helping others
then get a mate 2 join to together u can do twice as much good while havin twice as much fun
then get them to get someone else to join and the chain just keeps going on.
good luck
:)
2007-12-19 06:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ Megglez ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hate anything, anybody: do not hate at all ! Be selfless, totally: set aside your own likes and dislikes, be a role model in that! Widen your horizons, you will see some examples of selfless personalities, examples of compassion and kindness that you should feel happy about! On your part, be compassionate, do good to others as much as you can, stretch yourself occasionally, too, and you will find happiness around! good luck!
2007-12-19 06:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so selfish!!
But I suspect you don't worry about your selfishness but the selfishness of others, which you realize makes you selfish!!
2007-12-19 06:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try working with people who are less advantaged than yourself, charity work etc. There you will meet people who give there time and energy to others without gain! It restores your faith in humanity!
2007-12-19 06:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by speedboat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a life
2007-12-19 06:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try volunteering somewhere, that is being unselfish, also it is rewarding.
2007-12-19 06:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋