my vagina has small hole. i feel more pain during sex. but penis doed not go in. i want sex without pain how it is possible. is there any medicine for widden the vaginal hole. plz tell me about such medicine.
2007-12-18 18:48:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
The vagina is a distensible organ that can, over time, relax to accommodate a penis of any caliber. Difficulty with achieving penetration can be due to a number of factors, including inadequate lubrication, a tense hymenal ring (a remnant of tissue at the entrance that is sometimes torn at first sexual activity), or involuntary spasm of the vaginal muscles (a condition known as vaginismus).
A first step to try would be to use a lubricant, with adequate foreplay and digital (finger) manipulation to ensure that you are relaxed and ready when you attempt penetration. If you are still having difficulty, or if it is painful to even admit one finger, then you may need to use more intensive therapy with vaginal dilators, best practiced under the supervision of a sex therapist.
2007-12-18 18:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Small Vaginal Opening
2016-10-03 02:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.You are young.You don't have much sexual experience.You ask your guy to use condom .....it has duel advantage........lubricant spread all over and, it's safe to have sex in this manner.There should plenty of smooching and caressing all over your boobs and if, he can , he should lick your softer organs to rouse your sensation much more than you ever had before.You may also kiss and lick and suck his organ.THESE ARE PREPARATORY WORK WHICH MUST BE DONE TO GO FOR A FINAL SHOT.
Don't go for sexual intercourse unless you are raised to a level when your vagina is thoroughly oozing with lot of lubricants and you feel that you can't wait for the final go any longer.....your finger may be inserted by you to feel that the clit has become quite big and all liquid around it.........that's the right time for intercourse.Tell your Bf to push slowly ...bit by bit...... and you will notice the passage gives in ........for him to insert the whole of his organ inside your hole.You will love it.
P.S,. Tell your Bf to insert slowly ........in and out .......up and down , but, not very fast initially...it should be ........bit by bit ....that's the way it should be.
2007-12-19 20:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is common.
The best way is use Lube, he needs to be gentle and patient. You and He need to basically try to widen you out :/ Sounds unpleasent i know.
Try using fingers for pleasure and to start to widen out the vagina, 1 then 2 maybe 3 fingers and then the penis should be able to get in.
If you are afraid of the pain you will clench down there whether you realize it or not. so relax.
2007-12-18 19:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange ... Normally vagina is a flexible part of woman's body. From Where small penis goes in and large head of a child comes out. YOU are not indulging in foreplay to make the vagina lubricated naturally. Or use some oil or KY jelly for penis application. It seems that you want sex in a hurry. DO NOT INDULGE IN JUST 'BARE, ENTER AND FINISH MAN' STYLE...
2007-12-19 05:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend more time in fore play. Apply some external lubricant such as KY Jelly or Charmis cream. If it pains still, then consult a gynac.
2007-12-18 20:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get inserted penis in your vagina daily with the help of some lubricant so that your vaginal hole will be widened. there is no medicine to widen hole of your vagina. you may also practice to widen by inserting your fingers in your vaginal hole.
2007-12-20 03:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by lmdhamone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go see your gynecologist because it could be that your vaginal opening is not big enough. They will give you some medicine to put in your bath water that will help open it up.
2007-12-18 19:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by Bilinda G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is in your mind that you will get pain during intercourse. Just take help of your Husband to lubricate your tract well before intercourse and try out slowly and it will be done.
2007-12-18 21:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by Sanjay K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, choose medicine as a last resort. i recommend doing it the natural healthy and better way.
learn about tantric sex and kamasutra
lube and masterbation should help (slowly not forcefully) work on opening it up .
while having sex tell him to be patient and go very slowly as you get more comfortable and open up more he can increase to a comfortable speed
work on different positions
2007-12-18 18:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋