caught my attention. I'm starting to think there's something wrong with me. I just don't feel like I want to make the effort to open myself and heart to anyone. WHenever I try, I just get disappointed I want to move on with my life. Do people ever have the ability to open themselves up again? I have so many constraints on my time, kids, job etc. and I think that may have something to do with it. Does anyone have a similar experience or going through the same thing?
2007-12-18 16:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll know when you meet the right person
2007-12-18 16:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered the question yourself.Yes, be your own.Take life as it comes.You don't have to be after this or that guy.When the right moment comes , it just happens.I am sure , you have a great mental temperament which will support you to wear a decent look, smile and laugh , go round places/joints as you did before without ever intending to get the right guy for you at this stage.How can you forget that you had a divorce that took place just 7 months ago.Give a break.Things will take proper shape automatically.
2007-12-18 17:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, i could think of it is much less complicated to bypass on in case you shut the door at the back of you. What in case you provide him an ultimatim: he can play advantageous and chop up the cost of a widespread no-fault divorce and you bypass your man or woman separate techniques quietly, OR he can combat you and you will accuse him of adultery in court docket. (you're saying you have evidence, good? Does he comprehend precisely what you have? perhaps you're able to make him sweat a splash via not telling him. A in charge experience of right and incorrect makes for a energetic mind's eye.) If it works, yay. If it would not, you're actually not extremely obliged to persist with with the aid of on the risk if, after careful attention, you elect it is in simple terms not worth it.
2016-10-02 02:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just focus on the fun of dating? Go out, have some nice dinner and other dates, and maybe eventually you will click with someone. Don't put any pressure on yourself to find someone, and make sure your heart is healed from the divorce and you've adjusted to your new life as a single mom before opening up your door completely to someone new.
2007-12-18 16:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although I haven't had ANY dates since my divorce in Jan., I know what you mean. I have 2 little ones and I just have not met anyone I am interested in at all. I have a couple of men who having been hanging in there waiting on me to decide to start dating again but nothing is there! I think I am just too scared of a repeat of my last relationship
2007-12-18 17:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your feelings at least a year before
expecting them to stabilize. It's good that
you are busy, but take some quiet time
now and then to get back in touch with
yourself. It took me a lot longer than a
year, but eventually the old me returned.
2007-12-18 16:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by I ain't nothing but a hound dog. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tooo soon for you to be dating. That may be the reason why you cant find what your looking for because you really arnt looking. Or shouldnt be looking. relax, slow down. play single mom for a while. Then after you gather yourself again. Play the date game. All will fall into place.
2007-12-18 16:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by lourdes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dr. Joy, a radio therapist says that divorced people should wait at least one year before dating.
2007-12-18 16:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go looking for a man. Pray to God for exacly what your looking for in a man and when the time comes he will send that special someone to you.
2007-12-18 16:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by virgo1978 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try me if you like,,,,,,,,,
2007-12-18 16:27:03 · answer #10 · answered by cmurugesh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋