How many women do you know tried to "trap" men by getting pregnant?

Question

be careful fellas...this happened to a few of my buds. And it wasn't the hot girls either. They do it so they have to get married, or their life is ruined.

Is this common?

Answer 1

I think it was more common a generation or two ago, now its just about getting the child support

Answer 2

You do have some dumb women that try that but it never works. The guy almost always leaves. This also explains why those women attract guys like that. These women are selfish and only focus on their own needs and don't listen when the guy says he doesn't want a commitment, etc. They think they can change him. Their feelings get hurt when he leaves but you can't blame him. Most guys will be upfront with a girl and tell whether or not they want a committment.

The good girls are selective with whom they have a child with and it's usually with someone who wants to be with them, have a family, etc....


Bottom line, you get what you put out. If you feel women are trying to trap you, you are probably putting a vibe out there to attract that type of women.

Once you start to respect yourself and respect women , you will attract women that respect you and won't feel a need to "trap" you. It will be you trying to get them to commit to you.

Answer 3

And how is it that these women get pregnant - immaculate conception? Why are they the only ones to blame?
If he doesn't want to have a child with a casual acquaintance then at the very least he should wear a condom, regardless of whether or not she says she's protected. Where's their responsibility to protect themselves and their partners from venereal disease?
Oh I forgot, they were thinking with the smaller head and their own pleasure. Well, my boy, if they can play those sort of games they can pay the penalty for a foul.

***Try this - Never have sex with someone who you wouldn't want raising your children, because there's always the possibility that they could be. Makes the choice of a sexual partner worth a lot more thought, doesn't it?

Answer 4

It takes two, you know. If a guy fears being "trapped" into a marriage, then the guy should take every precaution to ensure that doesn't happen. Guys are usually the ones chasing after it, yet they don't seem to want to take any responsibility for birth control.

I would suggest the next time you are trying to have sex with a girl, that you come prepared. No pun intended.

Answer 5

I know one girl who did that, but I know quite a few men who tried to trap their girlfriends by getting them pregnant and admitted to it. And by the way, if a man really doesn't want to have a baby then he should always wear his own condoms that he buys, whether she claims she is on birth control or not. That way, he can't say he was trapped.

Answer 6

This is so wrong... I can't ever think that someone would use the life of a child to hold on to a man. For one, men aren't worth that. Tell your friends to stop scraping the bottom suckers and start finding better women.

Answer 7

There has always been men and women who have been taking advantage of each other.

There are a lot of women who believed some guy who said "I'll put on a condom before it gets too far", "I've had a vasectomy", "Nothing is going to happen".

Answer 8

Oh man this is very common, I am married and my wife still is trying to keep me trapped by constantly persuing me for sex and trying to get pregnant again so she will feel like she is safe and I cant leave abstenance is my policy now

Answer 9

I honestly know not one who has done something like that. But you cant blame the women only.
Guess those men should have had the common sense to wear a condom.

Answer 10

Yes. It does happen. Women do this .. especially if they have an obsession of wanting the guy big time.

Men have also gotten their wives pregnant to trap them in a marriage.

Both genders do it.