2007-12-18 13:14:56 · 15 answers · asked by 1/6,833,020,409 5 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Honestly, once I hit my 30's, I wised up and learned how to arm myself emotionally and psychologically from the bastards.. Even though I'm married for several years to a man I adore, there's still a little piece of my heart that's kept safe and separate and very private.
2007-12-18 17:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I got punched in the stomach and in my private parts when I was a little girl.
Oh, aside from physical abuse? It's hard to pick just one thing. I guess when I was a little girl I got ganged up on by a group of boys after school. They threatened to burn me with firecrackers if I didn't show them my private parts. I said "okay, but I'll only show you one at a time." So I took the first boy away from the rest of the group and when we were far enough away I ran my @$$ off all the way home and they couldn't catch up.
Deerwoman: why would should we be ashamed of our experiences? Should we sweep it under the rug like it never happened? I sure as hell would hope that if any of those things happened to my daughter that she would not be too ashamed to tell me.
Mac: Just because $#it happened to me does not mean I have a victim mentality.
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2016-04-24 21:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..... that's a tough question to answer because there are many things I can think of and it would be hard to pick just one... I also want to say that I don't view myself as having a "victim mentality." Bad things happen to all of us...no one is immune....but we get through it, and hopefully learn something from it.
My last boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend's 18 year old daughter. I found out about it on my birthday (I had just turned 36)...I found sexually explicit letters they had written to each other- and before I could confront the two of them, they both got together and baked me a birthday cake and presented it to me like it was some sort of peace offering. They didn't know that I had found the letters or that I knew anything. That was rich....and he gave me the roses he had actually bought for her, as a birthday gift. Happy birthday to me...lol!
And on another occasion, (same guy)- I had an argument with his sister. The next day I found a two-foot long gouge along the side of my brand new car, and if that wasn't bad enough, the rear-view mirror had been ripped off, leaving a crack in the windshield. Several weeks later, he admitted doing it because he was mad at me for having an argument with his sister. He gouged the car with my car keys...ironic because I had allowed him to drive my car even though he had a suspended license. Stupid me.
I think I'll just stop right now...this walk down memory lane isn't exactly pleasant.
2007-12-18 13:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 10⤊ 1⤋
I met a guy online last year around May and we got talking and msning all the time and he told all these things about himself like he was in the Air Force and and he had all this money and his son was in a bad car accident etc etc.But he was pretty smooth and slick and as we chatted more and more and he said all the right things to me ...I eventually fell in love with him and he with me...or so I thought.He was to come here and get me to move to his hometown and be a step-mom to his sons as their mom had died of cancer 5 years ago.Well one day before he was to get here he was in a serious 'accident' and died.
I grieved for weeks and months and even talked with (who I thought was)his youngest son for a month afterwards and listened to him on MSN cry about his dad being gone and not wanting live any more etc etc.Well over a year has passed since this accident and I wanted to find out where he was buried so I asked his oldest son to let me know through Facebook.
Turns out he never died...his wife never died,he has no money and has been pulling these scams off on other unsuspecting people for a long time now.And it turns out he was playing the part of his youngest son!!Everything he ever told me and everything he said he had bought me and all he was going to do for me turned out to be nothing but a big pile of bullsh*t.I found out the truth just last night.
2007-12-18 13:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Janell T 6 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Watching my three little children sit on the porch with their overnight bags waiting for daddy to pick em up on Christmas Eve, who by the way, never bothered to show.
2007-12-18 13:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by zen 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Us having plans of moving in together and getting married in three months. Him coming home from a business trip with a new girl. Putting up pictures of them making out, her wearing his shirt that I used to wear to sleep and jewelry that I left at his house, in our online photo album for me to see.
All this without bothering to break up with me, talking or explaining anything to me. I had to figure it out on my own and I had never ever been that in love with anybody before.
That was pretty hurtful.
2007-12-18 13:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lioness 6 · 13⤊ 1⤋
my stepfather called me a useless b!tch when i was 16..
it really did hurt...
but now i look back on it and just laugh.
i hate him.
2007-12-22 07:39:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much to state and in too public a place.
2007-12-18 15:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
The first thing that popped into my head was him cheating on me..
2007-12-18 13:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋