lets my boyfriend sleep over with me at night...do you think thats bad...would you let your kids do that...
But im responsible so like im not going to get pregnant or anything....
2007-12-18 11:39:45 · 63 answers · asked by MILAN :) 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't think his mom cares much..
2007-12-18 11:43:40 · update #1
haha thats awsome
2007-12-18 11:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by i_think_its_me_17 2 · 3⤊ 7⤋
That is not a wise thing for your mother to do. Even if you are responsible there is still that possibility that you will get pregnant and at sixteen that can pretty much ruin your life. I would suggest you stop letting him sleep over and if he gets upset he isn't the guy for you. Think about your future, do you really think you are going to marry this guy? if not then you should really consider what you want in your future. It may not seem big now but it will be one of those things you look back on and regret. Trust me, stop it now.
2007-12-18 11:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by rasberry003 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
This is a moral question. You should be looking inside yourself.
What have you been taught by you parents and how has it effected the way you look at your life? Even though you feel you are responsible, are you sure your boyfriend will contain himself. The risks outweigh everything here. There would be no way I would even consider this. I have a 16 year old daughter myself.
2007-12-18 11:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you are old enough to know what is right for you. My mum used to make me keep my door open if I had to have even friends over just for a visit. My oldest is very trustworthy and I would leave that decision up to her. As long as she wasn't getting up to mischief it would be ok. I can't talk anyway as I met my hubby when I was 17 got married at 18 and had my 1st bub at 19. I am still with him and we now have 5 kids. :) Merry Xmas to you and your family.
To whoever thumbs downed me get a life. This girl asked for opinions and I gave it. My life is great and I wouldn't have it any other way. 16yr olds know what is right and wrong and are capable of making decisions. I wasn't too young. :)
2007-12-18 11:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Kym M 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
As long as you are responsible I wouldn't matter. If I was a mom (thank goodness I'm not) I would make you sleep in different rooms if I was worried. But as long as you are responsible I don't think it is bad or anything.
2007-12-18 11:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by stranger_than_fiction 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, your mom obviously trusts you and you said that you are responisble so she knows that you would not just go and have sex with him. It could be a bad thing if you werent responisble but I see nothing wrong with that. I'm goin on 16 and my mom lets me have boyfriends spend the night but we sleep in different rooms so she knows nothign is going on.
2007-12-18 11:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by mariah 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
That's cool that your mother trusts you like that. I think I might let my daughter do that, but I can't say for sure until I have children and get to know them.
FYI...whether or not you're responsible doesn't depend on whether or not you get pregnant... it's what you would do if you DO get pregnant.
2007-12-18 11:45:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My parents would let boys stay the night in a different room, but then again my parents were hippies and I wasn't interested in dating the boys they were just friends. In this case I would say thats not normal, but if you trust yourself and are comfortable with the sitituation then its fine. Be careful.
2007-12-18 12:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a bad idea no matter how responsible you are. Temptation can be strong. It's not so much bad, that's the wrong term, but if the mom doesn't want sex going on, then it is risky on her part to let this happen.
2007-12-18 11:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well if your mom lets your boyfriend sleep over all you have to say is I don't want my boyfriend to sleep over. It's not like she is making him sleepover. It is actually nice to have a mother who trusts you. She obvisouly thinks your responsible and wouldnt do it. Don't loose her trust.
2007-12-18 11:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't let my sixteen year old let her boyfriend sleep over, even if she weren't going to get pregnant. I don't think that a 16 year old is emotionally ready for that kind of relationship, and I wouldn't encourage it in my home.
2007-12-18 11:42:20 · answer #11 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 9⤊ 2⤋