what are the physical things i should feel losing my virginity? please be thorough in your responses, contact me by email or IM as well if you wish.
2007-12-18 11:32:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It didn't hurt me at all actually, I think my hymen was already broken due to sports and other activities or mine was really really thin. You will feel a little discomfort at first, and it didn't start to really feel good to me the first few times but it def gets better. It shouldn't hurt, the most you should feel is a little bit of pain. Make sure you are ready, physically and emotionally, which means you will be lubricated and relaxed, if you tense up it will hurt more than if you were comfortable.
If you have any specific questions you can let me know and I can im, you really just feel a pressure opening you up, I am sure it is different for everyone though, but dont' worry, it is not as bad as some of the horror stories you hear :)
2007-12-18 11:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Graduation 2012 = :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes girls use sex in order to gain control in the relationship. The example about the homework and lolly pop can be used in this way. A girl might have sex with you in the beginning but later on she will try to buy you off with that. On the other hand, she could be desperate for the attention. None of the 2 would be taken as excuse for not respecting your thoughts. I´m going to say that you should apologize and then have make up sex ;) so if it doesn't work out, at least you got a taste of what it would´ve been! lol just kidding!
2016-05-24 23:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will likely experience a little bit of pain or discomfort for the first few minutes....like a pinch or a feeling of the skin being stretched like trying to push something through an opening that is too small.
2007-12-18 11:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe slight pain, but if its not comfortable then you arent lubricated enough. but anything should be fine.
btw dont worry about the hymen. you lose virginity when you have safe, sane and consensual sex for the first time. its really sad when a girl is raped and she wanted to wait for the right guy.
2007-12-18 11:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by baywatch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how big the boy is but most likely you'll feel a bit of pain and expect to see some lil spots of blood that's the best way i can describe if for you
2007-12-18 12:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by ~*EshaBoo*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Pain!
2007-12-18 11:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by Nats 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can tell you what you will feel. IT IS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE.
2007-12-18 12:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by S P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋