Women, help a caring and loving husband out?

Question

My wife and i had serious problems almost to the piont of divorce, but we decided to get back together and work things out. only thing is our sexual relationship is really suffering. anyway, im looking for some help, my question is...

What one comment can really make you cry (happy), make you feel so good inside, and have your heart melt. I love my wife more then anything in this world, she is my life adn my everything. I am just looking for some comments/compliments that any of you have received that just make your day. Or any that you would like to receive, any ideas for me. I have said some nice thigns, just looking for some more ideas that havent come to me yet, help me out, thanks...

Answer 1

My husband never really says anything to me.. I think he may have trouble talking about his emotions and how he is feeling .. but I know for sure without a doubt that he loves me, and cares about me because of his actions... he always sends me flowers for no reason, and even buys a little boquet for our little girl (which really touches me) he plans little getaways for just the 2 of us, and he makes little slideshows of the best times of our lives with songs that have meaning..

it's not always what you say but what you do that makes the most impact in ones life.. he always tries to make me feel important.. and I'm very blessed to have him..

I hope for your sake things will get better~

Answer 2

Not much that you could simply say, that will make everything better. Show her that you really care, plan an entire day or evening to SHOW her that you care. Plan something that she likes to do. Ask her questions in regards to the things that she in interested in. Express to her what it is that you find so attractive about her, be it the way she looks when she is sleeping or the cute way she snorts just a little while she laughs. It is always a good idea to comment on things that you know that she is somehat insecure about (i.e weight, skin, how well she is doing on something that she put alot of time and effort into). Nothing about marriage is easy, but look at it as you would building a model car, the more time and effort you spend on the little things, the better the overall project will turn out.

Answer 3

Being honest and not fake with what you say,
Doing nice things for her, like cleaning up around the house (without being asked), making a nice meal, rubbing her feet after a long day
Taking her out on a "date night" is always fun too.
Slipping little love notes in her coat pockets, her lunch....
Drawing her a bath with bubbles, candles, and some nice bath salts and her favorite relaxing music...
Sometimes actions do speak louder than words and by doing nice things for her it shows her how much you care- especially if you aren't always sure what to say

I also enjoy it when my SO call me occassionally during the day to say and "I love you" or writes me surprise love letters or buys me a romantic card "just because"
I like it when he ask me how my day went and listens intently no matter how long I take to vent or however silly (to him) the topic might be.
Hope some of these things help! GL!

Answer 4

Well anything from the heart is appreciated...try:

- Honey, every morning I wake up to you, I feel like the luckiest man alive.

- Life without you would be pointless, I'd have nothing to smile about.

But, you can't always say things she wants to hear, and expect her to forgive you. Sounds like you say things alot. Actions speak alot louder than words. How about showing her how much you appreciate her by letting her take it easy once in awhile. When she comes home have dinner ready for her, the house cleaned, kids fed/bathed, etc.
Sometimes you have to know when to give up, and if it's worth trying to work things out. Good luck, Hope everything goes well.

Answer 5

I don't quote movies often but there is a line in "As Good as It Gets." Jack Nicholson says to Helen Hunt, after being a complete jerk, "You make me want to be a better man." For me, loving someone means making yourself the best possible person to deserve them. I've always believed that and tried to live it, and that line in the movie summed it up.

And I'll tell you that my husband and I have our challenges to be sure. We can go for weeks without any good days, and just when I am at the end of my rope with him and am thinking of throwing in the towel, he just completely surprises me. He's planned a night for me with my girlfriends, or makes some elaborate plans with our friends and takes me on a goose chase till we wind up at my favorite restaurant, or even just does something around the house that he'd never normally do.

And because I admire your efforts, I'll give you one more secret that my husband does which makes me melt every time. He really doesn't give me compliments or nice words very often. But he goes out of his way to tell my friends how much I mean to him, and how fabulous I am and so on. He rarely does it around me, but it makes my day when my friends tell me the amazing things he said. Good luck.

Answer 6

Sorry love but actions speak louder than word s....Take her out for a romantic dinner then take her home were you have already have rose pedals on the floor leading to the bed room.When you enter the room lite the candles you place all around the room and then crack open the white zin (wine) you chilled and then toast her for her beauty and tell her you are in love with her... Then go to the end table and take out that little velvet box and open it (it will contain a journey pendant) And give it to her and say you want a much longer journey with her....And Then the loven will start .... And when you are done just hold her and fall asleep...

Answer 7

When me and my partner are talking about past things we have done when we were very happy and we still are, it makes me cry because he remembers,men don't usually remember the things women do. All i can tell you is the way my partner treats me is like no-one ever has. He comments on the way i look tells me i smell nice feel nice and even when he looks at me i know deep down he loves me because no-one has ever looked at me the way he does. The way he touches me or puts his hand on my hair makes me feel special. One of the things that did make me cry with happiness. He must of looked through all our photos and he had it enlarged and mounted and it was a very nice surprise it was one of the days where we had been out together and had great time. Memories and photo's make people emotional look through yours with her and remember the great times you have had....Good luck

Answer 8

My husband picked me a rose out of my rose garden one day and said....A rose for the love of my life....Yes, made my day we have been married 11 years. He also calls me and says things like how's the most beautiful woman in ***** today?
I am sure telling her she looks beautiful today and, how much you appreciate the things she dose for you...Send her some flowers for no reason. Call her and tell her your going to bring home dinner so she doesn't have to cook...Better yet you cook.

Answer 9

The next time you are holding her...not sexing her or feeling her up...just holding her...look at her for a long time...I mean a long time..till she asks you 'what?' and then very slowly, tell her..."I wish you could understand just how much I love you. It feels like I need a whole new language to describe it because regular words just...cant."
When you say goodbye, be it in the morning or on the phone..whatever..just kiss her and say 'beyond words'...she'll ask what you mean and you say...'my love for u..its beyond words'.

Answer 10

It was my B day and my husband said this til these day I remember is words, Darling, my love, my sweet, amor, carino, mi cielo. Today like any other day is special because you are in my life I love and I thank you for choosing me to be in your life to give you love to nurture everyday that passes I cherish you more and more. Never leave me for you are my water and with out I will wilt. I love you. Happy birthday.