Is she worth it? [explanation included] (PLEASE STOP THIS MADNESS!)?

Question

so, we got in a little fight and we apologized, but i haven't talked to her since. i don't really know.
some days i feel like i should talk to her, that i miss her.
other days i'm so happy and i'm like "why's did i ever bother with taht girl?"
She's kind and cool, yet changed so much. she's become someone i don't really understand as well any more.
so, this is in the style of question and choices for that question. plase include all of the answers you want and an explanation if wanted

1) should i still be friends?
A) No- get over it
B) No- bt tell her
C) Yes- but not as good friends
D) yes- reconnect imediately
E) yes- apologize

if you choose something then tell me how! like HOW to apologize or HOW to get over it.
it's so annoying that it puts about 50% of my stress. and you have to remember that school causes stress too! TOO MUCH!!!!! ahh!

plase help, i'm so confused that i want to cry- okay, i do cry!!! :(

Answer 1

i think that you should still be friends, but you shouldn't be as good as you were. Tell her that the reason you were fighting was because she has changed, and that you don't think that things can be the same. hope this helps good luck =]]

Answer 2

I would go with (C) - because people change, and you are all going through a turbulent time in school. I feel bad for you that you feel bad, though my sense is that one just cant get thru school without some drama and turmoil involving friends. Hey, but you don't need to apologize anymore - you said you did it, so once is plenty. But I say, C, because I think you need to put a little distance between you two - you are too vulnerable to being hurt, if you try being TOO close. Don't lead with your heart, but think about what you will say, and then see where it goes. You may be growing apart, but if you choose C you can do it gradually and with fairness to both sides. Good luck!

Answer 3

FIrst, you both apologized so no more apologies are needed.

Now you have mixed feelings about a friendship. You don't have as much in common anymore, and aren't as compatible.

My advice is a compromise: be casually friendly but don't spend more than 5 minutes with her.

Answer 4

I think that if it is getting to you this much, you should make friends with her just by being civil towards her, eg, asking her how her day has been, but I think that you should find new, better friends. True friends dont always annoy you or cause you this much grief.

Answer 5

The question should really be: Do I deserve to be treated so poorly?" The answer should be no and you need to move on. She clearly hasn't made an effort to reach out to you so put your energy into yourself.

Answer 6

i had a similar experience, this girl was a huge ***** to me, then she apologized, but now she barely talk, never saw eachother in the summer except for soccer, so i moved on. plus shes starting to hang out with this girl who has hated me since kindergarten (its her sole purpose in life, she stole my bff in grade 6)