she is my best friend, but ever since i told her this we have had problems communicating. we still talk but the conversations hadly go anywhere, we dont talk about stuff we used to and we hardly laugh. we have tried its just not the same.
ive tried talkin to her about just random stuff but its not the same. what kind of stuff can i talk about with her to open the line of communication back?
anything would be helpful.
2007-12-18 08:33:41 · 6 answers · asked by jumbo.jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do you still like her as more than just your best friend...??....if not tell her this and tell her that you want things to be back to normal....
if you still do like her, dont act like it...it might be creeping her out...just talk about the things that you did before all this happened...and talk to her about the whole situation....tell her that things arent the same between you two and you want to do something about it...ask her if you could do anything to help this problem....ask her what she is feeling...does she feel awkward around you now??....is she scared? nervous? talk to her about these things....getting her to open up to you will help the conversations from there on out to be more open and relaxed
good luck!
2007-12-18 08:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is be cool with her. Dont think about your feelings for a while, then when she feels relaxed around you, warm up to what you want to say. you can only fix this by communicating with her. Be open and frank. Coz ALL YOU ARE DOING IS EXPRESSING YOUR OWN FEELINGS. all the best!!!
2007-12-18 18:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Roh1T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You exhibit that you are faithful and honest to her and behave in very decent manner, appreciate all her good qualities, during your interaction politely tell her that you are in love and give her some time to think over it, whatever may be her answer either positive or negative, accept it with open heart.
2007-12-18 18:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by lmdhamone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it .. and ask her if she can stop thinking about the fact that u like her
2007-12-18 16:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean the spark plug - may be you will pick up speed again
2007-12-18 20:12:29 · answer #5 · answered by charlatan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just told her tht if u guyz can't be tht than atleast u can br frndz as u were bfor..........
2007-12-18 20:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋