I dont have any real friends!?What should i do?

Question

I dont have any real friends!?What should i do?
I dont have any real friends!?
Really recently my 2 good friends that i thought were my best friends have been talking behind my back and sometimes leaving me. They each have their own different friends and I dont have any. School as a middle schooler is really hard for me and in fact im crying right now.

Im not really into clubs, so should i just be myself and not try so hard? Will I eventually find true friends?

Its not like im uncool at school, im just not the popular type.

What should I do? thanks.

Answer 1

Have you tried heroine. It's a bit expensive but you can move in another dimension and if you want permanently

Answer 2

It's hard to find "real" friends. Middle school and high school are the toughest. The factors that make a real friend require a level of maturity teenagers don't generally have. Not their fault, some things just take time.

Sometimes you just have to be your own best friend. Your self-worth doesn't depend on how many friends you have or don't have. That's like adults judging their self-worth based on possessions (big house, cool car, etc.).

You might want to seek out other social groups where you will have common interests. You're more likely to find a good friend there, than from a classmate who sees you more as a competitor than a real friend.

Answer 3

Just dont care! Im telling you, you will be much happier without all the backstabbing and lieing and horrible friends. Ive never has a REAL best friend my entire life. Meet some new people DONT trust them easily be careful what you say and maybe youll meet someone worthy of being your best friend. Also If you meet sometime that like talks about her friends behind their backs to you then BEWARE because shell do it to you and anyone else.

Answer 4

Get into a club you are intrested in. Or a sport. Track is in season now so maybe if you like that stuff you should join that. Be sure to join a club you like otherwise you will just end up wit more fake friends. Just try to find people who will talk to you and soon you will be best friends! That has happened to me several times........ Don't worry everyone will find a friend sooner or later. Your just later.

Answer 5

I was the same at school
but as I grew up I made more friends. I have about 6 good friends now I afraid that girls are very fickle about friends three friends just dont work. Dont stress out you will find more just dont seem too wanting they will come. Good luck and be you.... thats the important thing not what others need you to be.

Answer 6

I wish there was a good answer. I had similar experiences during my school years. Adolescents can be petty at this age (hell, it happens with "adults" too).

Just hang in there and be yourself. It wouldn't hurt to look into clubs, too. I wasn't really into clubs either, but fell into one during my high school years. That, is where I found friends with common interests.

It wouldn't hurt for you to walk up and start talking to someone in the same boat as you - you may end up with a genuine, lifelong friend.

Some people take longer to blossom than others. It's so funny - while I had few friends during my jr. high/high school years, my now husband thinks I have too many friends!

Hang in there!

Answer 7

Im kind of in the same position, not really that badly though. I have associates rather than friends, like you would never see me alone around college or whatever. But if you ask them to come someplace with you, they will say no, but if one of their closer friends ask, u can best believe its a yes. I used to have 3 or 4 best friends untill i lost contact with them, and they completely changed and im not really liking them that much now. And the friends i made in Secondary School are gossiping little bum chums, suppose like your friends. Now im in college with no real friends, but more associates that i can just chill with. My advice is that if you have any people you can hang with, be around them more often, and get closer to certain people in that group, and never gossip or talk smack, just be yourself.

Answer 8

Dont worry about it.

I dont have any real friends, and I'm class president, head of the homecoming committee, a cheerleader, chair for Athletic Support ;; etc.

Real friends are hard to find, where popularity and being liked is much easier.

Answer 9

just chill play some video games surf the net its hard to get real friends i didnt get real friends till i was 17 it took some time but just chill and wait if you have a hard time my email is [e-mail] i dont wanna seem like a perv or a child predator i just feel bad for you cause ive been there well give me a holla if you want but like i said just chill bro youll be alright peace

Answer 10

Try Instant Messaging it works I'm not really the popular type either I do Instant Messaging!!