I am 28 years old and I seriously do not know what the diffrence is.I would also like to add that I have been married since 1998.
And when a married couple have oral/anal sex is THAT considered making love?
2007-12-18 08:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I never get what the enjoyment could possible be in having anal sex. It just seems like it would be painful, and nasty with poop smacking your butt...NASTY!! One more thing, if your husband want to give it to you in the dodo shoot, chances are that he would give it to a man too...food for thought.
having sex it wanting to have sex for the feel of it, because you like how it feels. Making love, is wanting to feel your husband inside you, to smell him, want to please him, want to love him, feel grateful for having him in your life...going through all those emotions while your are having sex, that's the difference.
2007-12-18 08:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by islandgirl God and family 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Making love is sexual contact that is very emotional and signifies a bond between two people. Having sex is plain old fashion fun where there is no emotional bond attempting to be signified by the act. People in love can have sex or make love. People who are not in love can only generally have sex. If a married couple has oral or anal sex it all depends on whether or not you are doing it out of love or simply out of pleasure.
2007-12-18 16:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have been married for 10 years and don't know the difference? I don't know if that is great because you make love all the time or scary because you only have sex.
Making love is when your hearts and souls meet. When you curl your toes and you want to breathe in your lover. Its a spiritual meeting of bodies and souls.
Having sex is purely physical! Its sweat and pleasure for the sake of pleasure and release!
Sex can also happen when one person is so *issed off at the other that it is just physical!
Both making love and having sex have their places...and both can be equally gratifying and fantasssssssssstic!
2007-12-18 16:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by foxinsox 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Making love is a romantic way of having sex. Which just cracks me up. "Baby will you make love to me"...not. Ima say Manuel F*ck me. I know he loves me and I dont need all that romantic love making or whatever.'
Edit:Island Girl Thast exactly what I think too. I dont understand what the difference in anal sex with a girl and guy are. If mine wanted anal sex he better leave me and go be with his gay boyfriend.
2007-12-18 16:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You" just" have sex w/ someone you have mediocre feelings for,it's raw,sometimes quick,just basically doesn't have a lot of feeling,when you make love you spend the time to touch,feel smell,hold,and please as well as getting pleased!!!
as for the anal/oral that's just the animal coming out in us,that's fine,but not romantic!!!!
2007-12-18 16:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres really no big difference, don't worry. oral sex is not making love....anal sex i would consider that to be fun sex.....but when you feel that you are making love with your partner it usually just feels more beautiful than other times....thats what i go by. Everyone is different with this topic and thats okay!
2007-12-18 16:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by PETEPUMA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can have sex without making love, but you can't make love without having sex. (I know, some will argue.)
Whatever you do for each other specifically to please the other is part of making love, as opposed to just sex. If that includes oral, up to you. Sex is self-centered; making love is other-centered, or even togetherness-centered.
2007-12-18 16:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im 17 yrs old and i know the diffrence.
making love is when you really love the person your making love to and it means something.
having sex is when you do it just becuse you want too.its kind of in the moment thing. like a one night stand.
2007-12-18 16:17:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
making love is about an emotion or feeling! Sex is just ******* no feelings or anything just the physical
2007-12-18 20:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
making love is when you actually LOVE someone (in a serious relationship or married) sex is just..... fornication under consent of the king!!
2007-12-18 17:15:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋