2007-12-18 07:51:27 · 28 answers · asked by Sally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A few months, is he high??
Tell him to puff puff pass!
2007-12-18 07:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't say if you have kids or not. If you have kids, I would say that's a bit excessive. If you don't have kids, and he's a big traveler. I could maybe understand a month. I'm a big traveler, and before my spouse and I got married, I traveled with a friend for a month. I wanted my then boyfriend(now husband) to go, but he couldn't take the time off. And this is something that is part of me, so I would never be able to deny that part of myself. And he understood that. If this is your husband too, I could sort of understand it. Now though, with kids, that's a totally different story. If you have kids, I'd have to say he shouldn't really be thinking about this for more than a week without being selfish. And if you don't have kids, then why can't you both go together?
2007-12-18 07:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by trapeze 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not normal he wants to go screw some woman abroad so you'll never know this is his plan. When you marry your suppose to want to travel with your mate not your single friends. If anything I think you need to tell him his single life is over and if he cannot deal with that then the marriage is over.
When you marry you don't go on vacation by yourself unless your going to do stuff the wife or spouse would not approve of.
I think you tell him NO we go together as a married couple or you do not go period.
You do not say how old you are if he is middle aged he is trying to get back his youth by sleeping around with younger woman abroad smell the coffee and tell him no go or he is coming home to empty house and divorce papers.
Wake-up please he's thinking of cheating on you.
2007-12-18 08:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few months! Yikes... I think this is a cause for concern. I understand people needing time, but you are not just his girlfriend. You are a wife, now a part of his family...
I say give him a week, maybe two. (which will probably use up his vacation time if he works) Anymore that that, and he is probably thinking of separation...
But, tell him how you find this odd and ask for an explaination as to why so much time, and also, what he plans to do in his time away.
2007-12-18 07:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, then right after he gets home is usually when he states that he has been unhappy for a really long time and he wants a divorce... Happened with my in-laws... More than a weekend fishing trip is out of the normal for anyone I know... Unless it was a father and son type of a trip... but him and his buddies? No way...
2007-12-18 07:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweet heart you're not confused! This is not normal nor is your man. Don't let him pull that crap on you. If he still wanted to travel alone, he should have left you alone, instead of asking you to marry him. People marry to be together, while forsaking all others, this sounds like a scam to me.
2007-12-18 08:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few MONTHS!
Does he have a job?
I don't know how any grown man could possibly pull that off let alone a whole group of men.
Smells like trouble to me. Offer him a week. Anything more would make me highly concerned. Afterall, boys will be boys.
2007-12-18 07:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Nashgirl4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A night out with the guys is normal not an extended trip.
2007-12-18 07:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal you better kick him in the butt and tell him no I am going to go with you. Think this it is as normal as you going to a singles cruise to the bahamas for 1 month.
2007-12-18 07:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectically normal, there are some couples who take entire vacations away from eachother and they love it.
I know of a couple who takes vacations all the time because they say that it strengthens their marriage!!
Maby your husband is going through a lot of stress, if you could get him to communicate with you on his decision and let him tell you why he wants to do this, that will make you feel better, I know it would make me feel better if my husband told me and then I knew why he wanted to do this.
Ask your husband before he goes, and have him tell you why, and communicate with him your concerns.
Something tells me this is the first time he has wanted to do this, so I can understand your concern.
2007-12-18 07:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What are they archeologists going on a dig in Egypt??
NO that's not normal....What a chicken s*%&$t he is....Tell him to balls up and keep it real! He needs to take his stuff w/ him when he goes on his "extended trip w/his buddies." What a sack! You make sure you let him know you're no pooh butt idiot that he can toy with....Tell him, things are on your terms! No exceptions!
Best Wishes
Loh.
2007-12-18 07:57:03 · answer #11 · answered by Loh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋