mean snob?

Question

i know this girl "Lila". She has been awfully mean to me. She pranks me, laughs at me, makes fun at me, and a lot others. She apologized but her voice was giggly and not apologetic. If i do not forgive her, does that make me mean? should i forgive her? i need to know, because i hate fighting and lila and i have been friends for a year

Answer 1

with friends like that, who needs enemies?

Answer 2

It seems Lila, your so called friend is not a friend at all! It seems to uses you for her own amusement! Excepting her apology will not lead to her being most understanding of your feelings, Most likely make matters worse!

I would say to NOT except and just go about your life Without Lila in it! How could you even feel any friendship from her when she does those things to you! She's not a True friend no matter how long you have known her! If she thinks doing all that stuff is what you do to friends, well then she Won't ever have a True friend! She's got a very pisspoor atitude of ever being anyones friend!!!

She's very Disrepectful to you and your feelings and feels she has a right to do anything she wants to you to get her laughs for the day! That's not a friend!!! I would say she treats you as if she's your Enemy! And you Don't need any of those, RIGHT!!!!

Answer 3

To be a snob means you are simultaneously ignorant, bigoted, condescending, judgmental and have an over-inflated view of your self worth - thinking you are "better" than other people (most commonly due to having more material possessions). In other words a snob is anyone attracted to live in the tiny, terminally dull, featureless, lifeless and depressing retirement/commuter enclave of Mawdesley, Lancashire. You want the definition of snob? Just visit Mawdesley.

Answer 4

Some friend she is.

Tell her that you are not enjoying what she is doing. You not forgiving her does not make you mean. You SHOULD forgive her, but it might take a while. Before you do forgive, make sure that she IS sorry when/if she apologizes, if not, and it happens again, don't be friends anymore. Friends don't do that kind of stuff to each other, and they should know when to stop.

Answer 5

This girl doesn't sound like she's really your friend. It sounds more like she's keeping you around for a good laugh, and being very cruel to you. Forgiving her doesn't necessarily mean that you still have to be her friend. Forgive her, and find some other friends that will be nice to you and treat you right.

Answer 6

You can forgive her, but that doesn't mean you still have to be her friend. It sounds like she is just Jealous. Keep positive people around and drop the haters. Continue to stay sweet, and just ignore her.

Answer 7

yeah, i would say that she is being mean. but the thing is you need to laugh with her. she will stop. she does it because she know that she can and you don't do anything. so if she does something to you that you think is mean. Laugh with her. this will show her that her pranks are not working any more. and she will stop.

best of luck.

Answer 8

We should always make every effort to forgive, but doing so doesn't necessarily mean giving that person an opportunity to keep hurting us. So I'd advise you to distance yourself from her, at least somewhat.

Answer 9

Why the hell are you freinds? maybe she's freinds with you so she can take the piss out of you! I had a freind like that at school and she did it out of low self esteem thats why they turn into bullies because they have issues, good luck and dont put up with it, she'll soon come running if she really want's to be your freind.

Answer 10

If you have been friends, just confront her! Tell her that you think it's mean the way she treats you. Doesn't sound like her apologies are sincere. She's the mean one. I hate mean people.

Answer 11

Forgive her, and make new friends. Why hang with someone that treats you badly. Remember mean people suck.