HELP! My lower abdomen/stomach hurts during sex. A stinging type of pain? =(?

Question

Last night my husband and I started having sex but 3 mins into it.. i started getting a stinging pain in my lower abdomen. It almost feels like a tremendous amount of air was pumped into my stomach and it was hurting so bad that we had to stop. It does not really hurt when he doesn't thrust but whenever he does.. i feel the stingy pain. I feel it also stinging when I use the muscles where you would try to fart (just an example of what muscle i was using) or to push your pee/poop whatever out. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!?!?!

I've never ever ever ever ever had it happen before and My husband and I didn't really do anything different last night. Could it be a cyst? And if so how fast does a cyst grow anyways cause It seemed like a all of a sudden thing. =(

I had one baby two years ago..



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Also .. after our "attempted" sex. .the pain slowly slowly started to go away... til now I can still feel it but it's not hurting anymore... it's like somehow my stomach nerves all twisted up into a bunch of something and it's slowly untangling itself... im scared. =(

Answer 1

Infection such as a urinary tract infection can cause this kind of pain. Based on what you mentioned about muscles, sometimes if those muscles are spasmed they can cause pain too such as if it is part of a condition called vulvodynia (pain of the external genitals).

The only way to find out for sure what is going on is to see your doctor for further evaluation of the situation to see what they think could be going on.

Answer 2

Hi guess you a young American boy English boys would have just asked a friend OK your 12yo your penis is exactly as it is meant to be over the next couple of years the franum will stretch on it's own so don't worry about it you don't need a circumcision nor do you need to start stretching pulling or doing any thing else to you penis it will give in time on its own but for you age your perfectly normal and on coarse for a fully functional penis so smile and be happy don't listen to people who tell you to stretch your foreskin not at you age it can cause damage which would result in you having to have a circumcision besides you don't need to I bet 2 years ago you could not pull it back more than quarter of the way just let nature take it's time thousands upon thousand of uncircumcised English boy do every year with no problems thats a good size for your age your developing perfectly Jill XXX