Did/does it turn you off of intimacy? Why or why not? Is there anything she could have done differently for you to become attracted to her again?
Reason for asking is I am going on 26 wks pregnant, and the sex has been on an increasing decline. At one time he couldn't get enough of me, now he can go a couple weeks without it!! I have only gained in the tummy, and am nice and toned everywhere else. Any suggestions, will his attraction ever come back?
2007-12-18 07:23:23 · 14 answers · asked by Betty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, most likely he is just freaked out at the possibility of hurting you or the baby, it has nothing to do with how you look, is just the realization that you're really pregnant hits when you start to show. After you have the baby, his fear will leave and he'll be back wanting it all the time, especially if you take care of your body after the baby.
Plus, I think you're supposed to stop having sexual intercourse after 5-6 months into pregnancy, I might be wrong but look into it.
2007-12-18 07:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Vanity Affaire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like my wife’s figure while she was pregnant. But my wife also continued to wear sexy things and show me that she wanted me too. To tell you the truth she wanted me more when she was pregnant then she does now, but any ways, Show him that you still want to be active, set the mood like you would if you weren’t.
Believe it or not, a lot of guys seem to think that they can hurt the baby when having sex. I know, I know I am not sure why they think this way but that could be it too.
2007-12-18 15:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My wife and did it up til about week 36 or 37. However let me tell you its can be really weird. You worry about hurting the baby or mom or a lot of other things. No no matter how many times they tell you you cannot hurt either of you it doesn't sink it.
Will his attraction ever come back? Did it ever leave? I am sure he is still attracted just a little squimish about it is all.
2007-12-18 15:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Undoubtedly, people will give me thumbs down for telling the truth, but yes, I was turned off by my wife's pregnancy, both times. It's not really that big a deal -- we still did have sex sometimes, and our frequency returned to normal after the births. I'm pretty sure that the entire turn off is not based on looks -- I think it's also psychological. Sometimes, it's hard not to think of that baby being in there when you're having sex.
2007-12-18 15:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It's probably starting to set in that there will be a little one coming soon. Dont worry about it, when the belly goes down he should be back to normal. You know men are weird like that. Is it his first born? Then yeah, hes more than likely an emotional rollercoaster just like you!
2007-12-18 15:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by mrsclh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy is different. I can't really say a big belly is a sexy look for me. I totally loved my wife regardless, in fact having my baby made me love her more. Sex may decline for a while. but don't worry about it. Wearing cute girlie tops did turn me on. (if you are looking for sex advice)
2007-12-18 15:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with you being toned anywhere else.....a lot of men get freaked out looking at that pregnant belly....its an eerie thing for some guys....
2007-12-18 15:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Violation Valerie X 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always thought my wife was beautiful when she was pregnant. In some ways better than when she was not pregnant. Love da baby.
2007-12-18 16:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by surething_78504 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought this is nothing to do with you being pregnant but with him worry about bills and how he is going to raise this child, when a man withdraw from sex it sometimt have nothing to do with the woman or her bosy but wih himself
Talk to your husband
Good luck & Congrats
2007-12-18 15:30:47 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find pregnant women to be VERY sexy, especially when they just plump out in the tummy section.
2007-12-18 16:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Slick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋