I am living in hell!! I am so sick of the person who lives with me. The family doesnt believe anything is wrong with the person. But i can see right through the person. They think her behavior is normal but i know so well in my heart she is not. She has all the syptoms of a sociopath. at first i thought it was screzpphrenia/depression. But now it has come so clear to me that its not. She has manipulated me to the point i no longer can trust her. Nor do i even want to talk to her. Cos everything taht comes out of her mouth is lies. She has no feelings and is superfical around the family. She has been playing mind games and when ever confront her, she would turn around and lie!!!! She is sneaking all the time and had suck the life out of me, And it seems like she feels good about it. She is the most decietful and evilest person i have ever know. I never know such people exist in this world. How do i confront/deal with a person like her???how to convince the family someting is wrong??
2007-12-18 07:21:54 · 8 answers · asked by jasMINe 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
how can i move, this is my house. this person has been kicked out several times but in the end always has a way to come back and charm the family, and changed the story and make up more lies....
2007-12-18 07:30:33 · update #1
OMG, I thought Crystal was one of a kind! You just described her to a tee. There's no point in a confrontation. They are evil, truly evil, and it won't serve any good, and if she's half as good as Crystal was, you'll just end up looking like an ***. The only thing for you to do, is get out, and get far away from this person before she totally ruins your life. I was burned twice before I learned my lesson, at which point, I simply quit associating with her. You can't save the others, they don't see it, and until they do, they won't understand. All you can do, is limit your own contact, and watch your back, for the knife she's about to plunge into it.
Just quietly and respectful make your excuses when situations arise and people expect you to socialize with her, and leave! Be polite, and avoid her at all costs.
2007-12-18 07:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ista 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you already know enough about this person to consider him a sociopath then you know also that it is unwise and can be very unsafe to confront this person. It is a waste of time,energy & effort because these type of people have a story for everything and are masters at turning any situation around to where someone or everyone is to blame. If a sociopath gets backed into a corner so to speak this can be like caging a wild animal and to retaliate is what they do. The best thing to do is to just leave this person alone and stay clear of him. If you end up on his BAD list you may eventually have to get the police involved to get him to leave you alone. Be very careful.
2016-05-24 22:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex girlfriend. Really... But how exactly are you living together? Whose family are you speaking of? Hers or yours? Why can´t you just move?
It is the trade mark of a sociopath/psychopath to be able to manipulate their surrounding so that no one can really see that person for what they are. They can act social and perfectly normal but inside they feel like everyone is from outer space. They don´t understand human emotion, nor do they feel any. They can just mimic ordinary behavior and, to the untrained eye, appear normal. But their true nature shine through at some point often in a violent outburst when confronted in a situation they can´t back out of. You say she lies all the time. You need to find proof of her lies. How exactly I cant say. Does she steal? If she does than setting her up with a hidden camcorder, if you have access to one, should be one possibility.
2007-12-18 07:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by DrAnders_pHd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree move out or in with some one else if ur old enough or if u have the authority make her leave its not good to live with someone u can trust i would be parnoid all the time if i were u i would say u could also just use her medicine against her but u seem like a nice girl then it would also make u look bad i wish i could give u more help but its hard when u dont kno the whole situation
2007-12-18 07:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to convince her family of anything, she will only use it against you.
Wait and continue to watch her actions and eventually you will catch her in the act of doing something she is not supposed to. When this happens, just kick her out.
2007-12-18 07:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a scary movie, I would have a long talk with whom ever runs the house and if that don't work, I would make a grand exit.
2007-12-18 07:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by jdydewing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore valuable time! Look for the closest door, and make your grand exit back into the real world! Move on, and ignore those that are in denial! You know what's going on, not them.
2007-12-18 07:29:10 · answer #7 · answered by Pinyon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are underage....and this person is your mother...sister...gaurdian....
you need to speak with your guidance counselor...your health may be at risk.... this is their job....don't feel responsible or self conscious....your counselor is there to help...
you can only help others, after you have helped yourself..... if you are in physical/emotional danger.....you can't help your family until AFTER you have provided for your own safety....
trust me, it will blow up on ya....
good luck, god bless
2007-12-18 07:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by bluesbrother74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move out or kick her out. Why do you need to convince anyone....you know yourself so move before she does something really bad to you.
2007-12-18 07:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Tica 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lock her in a closet.
2007-12-18 07:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Piggums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋