we stop dating 2 months ago, the reason we stop dating is that she's dealing with emotional problems due to her last relationship of 8 years in which her x confess that he cheated on her the whole entire time. in which she's not ready for anything serious. but 2 weeks ago, we bump into each other n sparks reignited, we hung out the entire week and weekend, then into last week she became cold, toward the end of the week she began to ask me to hang out, we hung out this weekend so i decided to get her something for x mas, i got her something not cheap but not expensive something that she will love. so last night i went to give it to her, she said NO NO NO i cant accept this, I said don t worry about it, its just a gift i brought everyone gifts so its not a big deal she said Yeah but i didnt get u anything (i knew this) n i told her dont worry about it so she told me let me mail u a x mas card later on she left me a message saying i dont know how much to thank u
what do u think?
2007-12-18 07:05:44 · 9 answers · asked by Steven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What did you get her????
Just curious
Maybe she was just being modest and humble but actually enjoyed the gift very much
Seems like you made her happy though, so good for you.
Good luck
2007-12-18 07:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty simple, at least she is raised right that she won't accept gifts from just anyone. That is the right thing for a lady to do. Too bad she is not ready for a relationship. Move on.
2007-12-18 07:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cling in there... it feels like she merely needs slightly time. and he or she feels like shes a great woman for being user-friendly with you, and worried inclusive of your thoughts besides. i'm happy to take heed to you gave her the present and it feels like she cherished it. And the message she left for you sounds like it became into actual. It feels like she somewhat cares approximately you... or she'd be ignoring you. supply her it sluggish.. sustain a correspondence along with her yet proceed to furnish her that area. I wager you something, she'll come around! i can not wait to take heed to approximately it whilst she does!!! I went in the process an identical difficulty whilst i became into relationship my husband and it lasted 6 long (extraordinarily long!) weeks... yet oh my... the advantages became into sooooo candy! Thats why i'm hoping you cling in there. She does no longer be pondering your thoughts lots if she did no longer care approximately you lots!
2016-10-08 21:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to be very clear that she doesn't have serious feelings for you. As long as you're clear on that, and as long as whatever you got her IS "just a gift" - then no worries, you're fine. But if you're thinking this relationship is going to go somewhere - it won't. Just be realistic and don't delude yourself. She may be attracted to you, and you're ok for now, but she doesn't see you as a serious prospect.
2007-12-18 07:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In light of the fact that I've already answered, I think you ought to stop posting this question already!
2007-12-18 07:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she felt embarrassed because you brought her a gift and she had nothing for you. Her message might mean that she will find another way to thank you. wink, wink.
2007-12-18 07:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you are reading into it to much. She felt bad that you bought her something and she had nothing for you. That's how we all react in this position
2007-12-18 07:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she there yet. Be careful. Go slow.
2007-12-18 07:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what was the gift ??
2007-12-18 07:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋