Theres a "Straight" guy 34yo, (he has a gf) he keeps flirting with me, he works close by my work.... I M 27 btw
- He kisses me on the cheek every time he sees me
- He stares into my eyes and holds my hand , he even rubs it
- He said " the traffic stopped cause you are here " and when i was wearing a suit he said " wow, you look great in your suit cause you are hot "
- He buys me coffee every day
- Today he told me " theres something for you at the back seat of your car' he had bought me a nice jacket but i was with a friend and he told me call me
- I didnt call him and he called me after 3 hrs but I didnt answer ause i was showering. When i called him he was very friendly and told me hey i cant talk right now , many kisses we talk soon. Should i text him and tell him "sorry that i caught you at a bad time on the phone but thanks for the gift bla bla bla or not? Is he interested or not? Once he flirts then he acts like Afriend..... its like so fkng confusing. :(
2007-12-18 06:40:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok, he pretends to be straight, i have no idea what he is , bi, bicurious, narcissist, whatevah. i am trying to figure out
2007-12-18 06:49:09 · update #1
No texts!!! Wait till he calls you!!
2007-12-18 06:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
matters what you are looking for.. it could be he's a closet.. or maybe he's bi and his gal knows.. there are alot of different ways it could play.. maybe hang out with him some and see what he's looking for.. he's buying you gifts and your accepting them.. so your interested.. and he calling and your both returning calls.. seems that you both have lots of desire..
Maybe make a lunch or dinner date and talk with him.. see what he's getting at and ask yourself if thats something your interested in..
be prepared to be the other person though.. cause he has a gal in his life.. and she was first.. respect that above all else..
2007-12-18 14:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by jeselynn_81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hitting on you big time. Do you want to be second best to his girlfriend? No, then tell him to sort himself out. It's insulting that he presumes you'll be flattered by his infidelity.
Put a stop to his charm offensive until he can be honest with himself, his girlfriend and you.
2007-12-18 14:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Paulo 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It seems like he more then interested in you. Yes by all means text him, persue him, see where it goes. Good Luck.
2007-12-18 14:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Antdak 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The rest of your story made your first statement a lie. HE AIN'T STRAIGHT. Sorry to break this news to you.
2007-12-18 14:47:18 · answer #5 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
do want you wish...you are 27 after all
2007-12-18 14:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful - if you don't grab him - someone else might.
2007-12-18 14:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋