really expensive jewerly for christmas and i was thinking of just getting him a volcom jacket and picture of us. but i feel guilty like i need to get him something super duper nice and expensive??!?!
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2007-12-18 06:22:13 · 34 answers · asked by arielkhh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
wow u have a lot of answersss
ooooo yeah i pretty sure he will probs break up with you.... that sucks for you
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ariel- he is CRAZY about you, your beautiful and gabe is one lucky duck 2 have gf like you. screw the who $ thing. He will love anything you give him!!!!
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2007-12-18 13:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it the thought that counts. You can put a ton of effort into the idea of "just a gift" by wrapping it really nicely, making a homemade card to go with it, maybe making him dinner over the holidays. Depending on where you guys are with your sex life together you can do a lot of creative things in this environment that he will LOVE! You can do super duper nice without doing super duper expensive. Put some thought into his favorite hobbies and past times and you will come up with the perfect idea.
2007-12-18 06:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by trement ave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy spends money on an expensive gift, it's because he cannot think of anything nearly good enough in the world for you. You are perfection in his eyes, and you should take that as a true and perfect compliment... I plan to buy my girlfriend a nice somewhat expensive watch, with a picture of us in a small built in locket, and a note that says, "No matter what time it says on this watch, always know, that I am thinking of you."
As for your gift to him, just about anything will do it, guys in love are generally not about material needs... I mean, gifts are great, anything "useful" will be a perfect give, anything "thoughtful" will be well felt... and of course anything "in bed" would be the best!
I should know... I'm a guy.
2007-12-18 06:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you should not feel guilty. As every girl knows, it is the mans job to take car of us. Besides there is a lot that you can get a girl that is expensive but there isnt much you can get a boy that is expensive. If you wanted to you could get him a watch or something just a little bit nicer that a jacket, but your gift now would be fine too,
2007-12-18 06:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by alison 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have been in the same situation before. The seriousness of your relationship has a lot to do with it. Most guys want to get you something nice and expensive, yet they don't expect much in return. That is natural for a lot of guys. In my opinion, guys should spoil their girlfriends. Also, material things don't mean as much to guys as they do to girls. Don't feel guilty. Your gift is personal, and that is what counts.
2007-12-18 06:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mwhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not feel guilty! The choice of a gift is for giving, not for getting something in return.
Remember, the amount you give in gifts does not equal the amount you give in love, and vice versa.
The pictures are a great idea. Framed pics (cheap at TJ Maxx, Marshalls, etc) are alway loved!
2007-12-18 06:26:02 · answer #6 · answered by SPMOSHER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's getting you that b/c he WANTS to. Last time I checked, Volcom jackets are pretty expensive, and I'm sure he'll like the picture of you guys... he loves you enough to get you jewelry! Don't sweat it... but if you still feel like you need to get him more stuff to compensate, get him a DVD that you know he'll like!
2007-12-18 06:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should feel guilty. Giving is not about the price tag. I honestly think it's the thought that counts. Plus, guys like to make their girls feel extra special. Don't make gift buying into a competition, but if it was one the guy would want to win and leave you breathless with his present. Let him sweep you off his feet, and show your graditude for what he's done for you physically. Actions speak louder then words. I'm sure all he wants for christmas is you.
2007-12-18 06:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Know one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you feel guilty about your gift? does your relationship is based on the material things tha both of you could get to one another?besides, he's the boy and in a relationship its normal for a guy to give more expensive gifts to a girl than a girl do to a guy. what is important you gave your gift with love and with sincerity. remember that it is always the thought that counts. and a picture of you is a romantic gift, at least you could tell to him implicitly that you value every moment that you spent with him and you cherish your relationship. don't feel bad girl... cheer up!
2007-12-18 06:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by len2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it matters. It's the thought that counts right? And to make you feel better, last year I bought my friend these pajama shorts and a gift card ($15 total). And she bought me this really pretty jewlerly set that I saw for $80 in a magazine. I felt so bad. But she loved the pajama shorts and wears them all the time.
2007-12-18 07:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by dαncєr<3 [єrín] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, don't feel guilty. Everyone buys within their means. A gift is suppose to be a TOKEN in celebration of Christmas..ie Christ's birth. Not a competition or expression of "how much" u love someone.
2007-12-18 06:27:33 · answer #11 · answered by •♦๑•TxRose•♦๑• 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋