......and then not even offer an EXPLANATION???
I did recently, and my feelings are SO HURT! =(
2007-12-18 06:20:29 · 28 answers · asked by Georgia Rose 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm so sorry this happened to you :-(
Here's a >>>>>>>BIG HUG>>>>>>>
2007-12-18 10:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same here girl, I feel so bad. This girl and I started working at the same place at the same time so we naturaly gravited to each other. But we turned out to be more than just work friends, we became best of friends. We would hang out all the time her, her husband and me and my bf we used to see eachother more than our own families. And just this year like around March (after Easter) she just quit calling. I called her the day after Easter to let her know I was sorry I couldn't make it to the get together, but we had work to do at my sister's house. Then I called her a few weeks after that for my nieces graduation and nothing. Not even a "thanks but we can't come". So in my last attempt I text her a couple of months ago to ask her why she's mad and I had great news to give her. I'm pregnant and she's known how difficult it was for us to conceive and suffered a miscarriage a couple of years ago so you would think she'd be at least happy for me. Well she did call back and left a voice mail saying congrats and she's not mad but real busy with the kids. I haven't heard from her since. I would think after all the times she called me crying her eyes out with problems she had in her marriage and whatever, I would at least get a call ever so often at least asking about the baby.....but I guess not.
I understand that kids are a handful, and she has a set of twins but c'mon you can't take 2 minutes to call and say "hey what's up, hope you're doing good talk to you later!" Nope. Nothing. My baby's almost due and I can't believe she hasn't been around to be happy with me. Oh well, live and learn right?
2007-12-18 07:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by texicangirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by dump? Are we talking about who I think were talking about? If so, I'd be a little hurt too, but I'd wait to find out what the explanation was. Don't get too down about it girl, I'm still here.
-Knowledge24
2007-12-18 08:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, years ago, I was very friendly with a neighbor. Her sons swam in our pool, she and I took walks daily, and we were almost as one family. I even did a paper for college on their family.
Then, one day, her son had skipped school, I came home for lunch and he and his friend were in my pool. Jumped the fence! I was sick as to what could have happened. I told him I would not tell his mom, but if he did it again, I would have to tell her. Three days later, I came home unannounced and there he was with two other friends. I walked him to his home and told his mom.
She yelled at me to not pick on him, and from that day until 20 years later, we are friends again. The hurt is there for me yet, because it was so deep, but when I moved back into my home after being gone for 13 years, she made an overture to be friends, and I reached back to her. I'm glad that it is over, because I loved her so as a sister, and never really got closure on any of it because she would not (and has not) discussed it.
I accept her for who she is, and know that life went on without her in my life. She may have other reasons (I had just finished getting a Masters degree and she had a small education level was one thing) but we could have discussed that, or anything else. Not knowing why bothered me and I always had it in the back of my mind.
I'm happy now, though. We are once again talking,and being much older now, probably glad to have that friendship again.
2007-12-18 06:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
omg, don't EVEN get me started!
Yeah, that kinda stuff seems to be just my luck, throughout my life. And if I lived to be 1000+ I would never understand why.
All I know is, my best friend for years, through high school and beyond... dumped me citing negative personality traits which he also posessed.... very shorty after my mother died leaving me all alone to fend for myself in this cold, cruel world. I know, u say, "feel bitter much?" and the answer would be... "how could I not?"
2007-12-18 19:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by d_jayde_318 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...happened two weeks ago...had the nerve to send me a text telling me to "do him a favor a lose his phone number"...I then texted him back asking for a reason and of course got none...long story short I have never heard from him again...(it's been two weeks now and it still bothers me because I considered him a friend and I am in the dark)...I have no reason why but some think it is poker related LOL...if that's the case he was a real prick to begin with...
Are you talking about a guy or a girl because I have learned that guys do dumb things with no reason really...it's how they are...
2007-12-18 06:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by poker_fan_in_nyc 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
gosh, i''m sooo sorry that happened to you. especially if you really enjoyed that persons friendship and your left with no explaination.
but, there has got to be a reason. sometimes those reasons are really self centered and the person on the recieving end is left mind blown. why don't you wait things out. let things settle down. then when she is more relaxed about the situation then she might be more open to talk about it.
then you can chose to be her friend or not depending on what she says.
good luck with that
mona
2007-12-18 07:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but then she also dumped her husband and started dating a guy waaay younger than her and completely changed careers. I think she is having her mid-life crisis a little early. Either that or she has gone around the bend. It did hurt my feelings really bad though, so I can sympathize.
2007-12-18 06:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Starr 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes I did.I was having family over from out of town and she had phoned and wanted to come over to go through some books I had in boxes.I told her it would have to be another day as I had company.She was so mad as she wanted them there and now,they were my books,so I said see you tomorrow.I phoned the next day she wouldn't even answer the phone.The next day she changed her number.That hurt so very much as I am godmother to her son.
2007-12-18 06:28:27 · answer #9 · answered by PatriciaLIrishladypat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have! And it does hurt badly!! I don't understand it at all!!
I am hurt by this a lot!! But their is nothing I can do but wonder WHY???
GREAT question G.
I am very sorry about the friend that hurt you too!!
♥
2007-12-18 12:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and it was real weird. We were supposed to meet for dinner one night. I got there first and asked to go ahead and be seated. She never showed up and later said that she was there and I wasn't. I had my receipt and showed it to her. Made absolutely no difference. She told me "You know what this is about and I refuse to discuss it with you." Well, I didn't and still don't know what it was about, but after a month or two of trying to reason with her, I said "Screw you" and that was the end of that friendship. Her loss, not mine.
2007-12-18 06:26:51 · answer #11 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋