I spent one whole night with my last boyfriend and all we did was cuddle and kiss.The next day was totally different.From then on we hit on it at least three times every day.But I would like to hear how long some of you have waited before the grand event and what did you do in the mean time?Was it cool,or was it frustrating?
2007-12-18 06:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by Rick 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow!You guys are putting some time in here!That's just too long!Mainly I mean being with this person constantly for the whole time.I can see waiting for a plan to come together.But what about when you are hot for each other and you live together?How long can you take it?To be honest,there are parts of me that begin to HURT when the tease and foreplay lasts too awfully long...
2007-12-18 06:18:50 · update #1
Ok, I once dated this guy that was a virgin. He had only one request, that we really care for each other before we did anything. Yeah, we cuddled, and we kissed, but we waited for like seven months (until we ended up spending this incredibly amazing weekend on my birthday). At times it was frustrating, but I never showed it, because I understood that which he was going through. I admired his morals, and loved him for his journey. When we finally began hving sex, it was incredibly intimate and very passionate (honestly, some of the best sex that I have had...). The truth - in today's contemporary gay world - sex comes first. We often satisfy our bodies, neglecting our souls and hearts. With Danny, it was worth it. I loved him, and yes - it was frustrating at times, but definately worth it.
2007-12-18 06:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Alexi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adam!!!!!!! ;)
This question is blowing my mind. Lol! It was a long time ago and I was dating this really, really attractive German girl. I waited for almost a year before we ended up in bed. It was like we were always waiting for the other to make a move, which no one dared until around February of the following year. It was both cool and frustrating. She was the type of girl I respected way too much to just get it on right away. ;)
edit: didn't see a follow-up question there!
When I was in college, I practically lived with my ex (of four years). The longest time we didn't have sex was about 3 months. It's too long, I know. It was a mutual decision I guess. Academics were screwing us more than each other. Grr.
2007-12-18 20:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A couple of weeks and a few dates, its not like I saw him every day, I had school, he had work, but we talked just about every day. I think it was the third weekend when we drove to the ocean and talked until the sun started to rise before anything happened. That was a long time ago and he's still in the picture.
2007-12-18 14:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll be a yr n 3 months on the 28th!!! :)
it hurts a lil but not alot
sex isnt really a big issue to us
so wen we see each other we cuddle and kiss
but we never "do it"
2007-12-18 15:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by alesha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About a Month I thought I would die. It was worth the wait though
2007-12-18 14:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been without sex for 6 months as my wife is pregnant & sex is too painful this time around. GAH! Thankgod I have hands! I hate it!!!!
2007-12-18 23:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three months. I was waiting for my girlfriend to leave my best friend alone. So I could get with her.
2007-12-18 14:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by gabriel l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One hour!!!
We couldn't find a room for that long and he didn't want to do it in the bushes.
Longest hour of my life. Thought I was gonna die!!!!!
2007-12-18 14:41:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was about 6 minutes. We were practicing some restraint.
2007-12-18 14:35:01 · answer #9 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 years with my ex.
2007-12-18 14:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋