I have been friends with this girl for a long time but just recently we have gotten closer. As we got closer when she would hear something a guy would say about me not wanting to be friends with her anymore, she would text and call a lot and flip out. She has done this a few times and the last time was supposed to be the last straw. However, she caught me off guard and came to my job on her birthday and said all she wants is her best friend back. I felt bad and really didn't know what to do so I forgave her. I really can't take the drama anymore because it stresses me out way too much and I left that drama when I left high school. I don't know what I should do. Was forgiving her the right thing?
2007-12-18 05:09:42 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 24/7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its always good to forgive.
but you need to talk to her.
tell her that your not going to do this anymore
she should trust you
and if it happens again you wont accept her appology.
But yes forgiving was right
2007-12-18 05:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Elly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is always in order, but you don't have to continue to extend the hand of close friendship. Next time 'round, inform her that you forgive the drama, but you aren't interested in indulging it any more, and she should take her attentions elsewhere.
2007-12-18 13:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving is always the high road.....
Tell your friend, that she is your friend, and is going to be your friend, and that she should not listen to what other people say, about your friendship...
Remember you may have lots of friends, and she may not be YOUR best friend, but you may be HER best and only friend....
2007-12-18 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋