Should i have sex?

Question

my girlfriend and me want to have sex. Im 12 shes 14. We really luv ach other but we're both having douts. and loads of the kids in my class keep saying to me have you done ityet.
i no about contraseption and stuff like that but i dont know if i should do it? help

Answer 1

you are both far too young. She won't enjoy it, her body is not fully matured and all it will be is painful for her. Neither of you is prepared for the possible consequences either...like a baby, they do happen even if you use contraceptive devices. Never ever have sex unless you are prepared to deal with all the possible consequences. Don't let peer pressure push you into doing something stupid. If they asked you if you've jumped off a twenty story building yet, would you try that? Of course not...so just tell them to mind their own business and concentrate on becoming a decent human being, what they think doesn't amount to a hill of beans when it comes to your life.

Answer 2

Not yet bro. I know the temptation is there, she's older and everyone pressures you by asking those awkward questions but you could tell them its none of their business, or not do it and say you did. But if you are going to go through with it, as many people do then make sure you know everything there is to know about protection and diseases, you don't want her getting pregnant. 12 is no age to have a baby, it's not fair on you, the girl or the child. Also, relationships this young never last, you feel you're in love now, but you won't know this girl a few years down the line, firstly because she's older and second because at your age its all hormones and you haven't experienced real love.

Answer 3

If you love really her you will wait till you two are at least 18, right now you're too young and not ready to confront the responsibility if something goes wrong, remember that no contraceptic metod is 100% effective. Please wait and when the correct time comes you too will be happy that you waited.

Forget about what other kids in your class say, 12 year old boys usually lie about having sex, I know it cause my younger bro bragged that he had sex with a girl and it was a lie.

Answer 4

NO - you are not ready and ignore the stupid kids at your school. Also, you are 12! At this stage of development, there is a big difference between 12 & 14. I would suggest you put this bf / gf relationship on hold. I bet you don't even have facial hair yet. When you start shaving, then you can BEGIN TO THINK about whether or not you are ready for sexual relations.

Answer 5

If you have to ask: no.

You're too young. You're still kids (from your post: "loads of the kids in my class..").
Trust me, the others are NOT doing it. It is peer pressure.

You can love each other and have fun without having sex.

Answer 6

can you handle getting your GED?
going to McDonalds for a job?
taking care of a kid on your own?

listen bud
your not ready to have sex nor do you have a concept of what love is
do you think in 10 years you will know this girl, let alone be with her.
I don't think so.

so if you want to suffer the consequences, do so.
until then shoot some hoops or what not. you don't need to have sex

Answer 7

You're too young. Wait till you're older a little bit older.

Answer 8

Lol, well you might not be able to get her pregnant, but if you'd listen to me, I regreted it at your age, it kinda makes you feel odd when your older, and if your still confused, send me an email or something - if you need any advice

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Answer 9

Stop being a little pu**y....Just do it....If you wait to long your Girlfriend will just think your a wussy...Forget about a condom takes all the feeling away...All you have to remember is to pull out as soon as you start to feel good....or be a real man and keep it in there it's your choice.

Answer 10

Make a well informed decision in your mind and think if it right or not. It isn't about age..